he says he will once his heads sorted out
2007-07-19 11:08:11 · 17 answers · asked by Beverley D 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
depression is an awful thing and my heart goes out to him-leaving you when u were 7 weeks pregnant is both heartless and irresponsible-you deserve better-get rid and stay rid x
2007-07-19 11:12:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
I am real sorry to hear about your suffering! Why would you want him to come back! If he don't care for you when you need him. Then you do not need HIM! It is easy to feel insecure and at least you think maybe he will improve! But he has already shown you the flaw in his nature! There are some great and lonely guys in the world. Have respect for your self and none for him! Grab your future with both hands and believe in yourself. You are the most important person in the world right now! Take hold of that as a truth and be brave! You really deserve better!
2007-07-19 11:29:20 · answer #2 · answered by Muleman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well have you or have you not miscarried? Get to the doctors and find out. As for the BF he's not going to be much use in a real crisis is he and life can be full of them. Get yourself sorted out first and don't wait around for him to decide to come back. If you did want him to come back then you make the rules but if I was you I'd go out and make new friends and don't be taken for a fool. Whatever happens hope you have a good life.
2007-07-19 11:15:35 · answer #3 · answered by Soup Dragon 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey -- find a more stable man and don't make babies with unstable ones. Do you really want to sign up for this for a long time? Feel sad now, give yourself some time to heal -- straighten up your life and then put yourself in a healthy relationship where you wouldn't have to worry about the guy leaving at an extremely critical time (being a father). Don't subject any other possible children to this.
2007-07-19 12:26:22 · answer #4 · answered by mj 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sure he will want to come back....but have a good think about whether u want him back,after all he left when u needed him the most.i know how upsetting ur situation is as a long time ago i was in it....he did come back,and all was great untill i got pregnant again....and guess what,he left!! that was 9 years ago....he is still living up single life,and doesnt give us a second thought.you have been through such a traumatic experience,you need support from friends and family not someone who says they love u but cant be there for u...
2007-07-19 11:29:17 · answer #5 · answered by Louisa b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off I would like to say that i am very sorry that ur b/f was a chicken and couldn't handle being a daddy! :(
And i am a teenager and i dont know the exact definition of miscarried.
but yea i would just be prepared for him to not come back. if he is depressed and he already left i highly doubt he will come back. i am very sorry!
if he was a real man he wouldn't have left in the first place so i doubt that he'll have the balls to come back to you and deal with this whole situation.
2007-07-19 11:13:09 · answer #6 · answered by sisterhood_traveling 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Apparently you miscarried? Shouldn't you know? If he left you seven weeks pregnant why would you want him back.
2007-07-19 11:12:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If your boyfriend is suffering from clinical depression, it has nothing to do with your state of pregnancy. I am sorry that you are having problems. You might want to encourage him to see a psychiatrist or counselor. As for yourself, I am very sorry for your miscarriage, and I hope you have a better future.
2007-07-19 11:14:37 · answer #8 · answered by drshorty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, you just had a miscarriage and your boyfriend might come back...after he left you when you were pregnant?
Don't worry about him. You have plenty to deal with on your own. If he comes back...think twice about taking him. He didn't support you when you were pregnant (and I'm assuming he was gone for the miscarriage, too.)
I mean, you may feel lonely or worried about him, but you need to focus on your own problems and let him deal with his own. Independence is good for both of you.
2007-07-19 11:17:02 · answer #9 · answered by SlowClap 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
sorry to hear that..
you mean it happened after he left? it's not an easy time for you a few of my male friends have been thru it,so must be 10 times worse for you the woman..
if he left before, perhaps he isn't the best person to have as the father of kids if he is so quick to do a flit.. sorry thats blunt, but thats the truth.
I haven't got kids, will wait till i'm as sure as I can be I will be with that woman for the rest of my life and married.. pity her whoever she is..hehe
2007-07-19 11:14:02 · answer #10 · answered by junglejungle 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Ggetting depressed is not a reason for leaving you! no matter how bad he feels. Dump him and get a real man! one who will think of you as a couple.ok
If you take him back I bet he will do it again some day, can you really be wanting that?
2007-07-19 21:01:29 · answer #11 · answered by Matt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋