Haven't you ever felt unapreciated and alone....hanging with wrong people who don't understand you......Now I want to go to a place no one knowsme there & start a new life but it is not possible in real life so what makes me want to wake up tomorow??
2007-07-19 10:56:28 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
Actually, it is possible to "relocate" in real life if you truly desire to do such. And, it is also possible to just stay where you are and learn how to be independant and self sufficient. Then, what others think about you will be irrelevant; and, you'll be able to live without the validation and approval of others. A very freeing way to be. :))
2007-07-19 11:13:56 · answer #1 · answered by drakke1 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Step 1: You know where you are (right there, you're ahead of many people) and that you no longer want to be there. So you know what you don't want. Good!
Step 2 is to have some kind of goal. You need to form an idea of where you want to be, more specifically than Not-Here.
Take it as an opportunity to get to know different people and go to different places.
Wake up tomorrow with the decision made to talk to someone new or to go someplace new.
We generally have our eyes and minds closed to most of who and what is around us. (If we were 100% aware of everything, we'd be overwhelmed.) So start seeing what's been there all along that you've never paid much attention to. Widen your vision.
2007-07-19 12:46:21 · answer #2 · answered by Diana 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you betcha.
but it is your cells that need the most convincing, otherwise: they will attract only the same things you are used to. consider this parable:
an old blind seer stands at the entry to a village.
travelers looking for a new town to live in approach the man and ask "old wise man, what kind of people live in this town?" to which the man replys "well, what kind of people live in the town you are from?", the travelers: "only angry hate filled people filled with spite and rage who would rather spit on you then help you." the wise man smiles slightly and says, "you will find the same here." these travelers move on. the next day a new group of travelers looking for a new home approach the man and ask the same question "what kind of people live here in this town?", to which the man once again replies "well, what kind of people live in the town you are from?" the travelers say: "compassionate love filled people who would rather help others than themselves." the wise man smiles slightly and says "you will find the same here."
so:
if you are feeling unapreciated, alone and out of place, it is because you are secretly inviting these traits. relocating your self and your possesions does not change this. say out loud ten times a day "thank you for appreciating me" "thank you for being with me" "thank you for empowering me with a fulfilling life purpose." then imagine the feeling of having these things in your life: appreciation, companionship, purpose.
even if no one is around to hear it and you may feel a bit absurd, but try this for two weeks and see what happens. even if you do not believe these statements, you want to believe them, right?(!), so, do it!!
chances are, you will not need to move and rather than encouraging what you do not want, you will begin to invite the positive things you seek in your life. then it is just up to you to notice these positive things when they are delivered to you and to act on it.
2007-07-19 11:00:15 · answer #3 · answered by ỉη ץ٥ڵ 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Feeling unappreciated is often the sign of a martyr in the making. When we choose to stop doing things to endear others to us, we end up feeling much better.
As a social species, when we choose to let go of the fear of being alone, our aloneness stops.
I agree -- find new people. You are a valued member of the species. Find those who will appreciate you for yourself without you having to do for them. They do exist. It just requires patience at times.
2007-07-19 13:16:59 · answer #4 · answered by guru 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We can alway yank it up by the roots, shake off the dirt, and re-plant.
It's a choice, or series of choices, and it involves fracturing dozens of habits of thought and spirit.
But anyone can do it. It's one of the greatest blessings this life provides.
2007-07-19 12:34:36 · answer #5 · answered by Jack P 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, I became a hippie, and felt happy.
2007-07-19 11:15:11 · answer #6 · answered by Marley Sunshine 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋