i have a BF that iv been with for over 4 years and we have a daughter together but i just cant stand him at times anymore every little stupid thing he does pisses me so much. ive been a bi*** to him and he doesnt leave my house im 21 he's 22 and i know were young and all but i just want him out of my life i really dont love him as much and he just doesnt get it no matter what way i tell him.please let me know if youve ever been in this situation and let me know what you did. please advise me as what can i do for him to leave me the freak alone he just makes me have bad days and head aches and makes me stress so much i cant handle it no more
2007-07-19 10:20:10 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You need to tell him how you feel and then move out. Your to young to be wasting your life with someone you no longer want to be with!
2007-07-19 11:09:00 · answer #1 · answered by Jai 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him flat out. Guys do not get hints. They think if a chick acts like a Bi*** that she will get over it. It's not worth keeping him around if you are stressed & having headaches. Be sure that you end it before it gets to bad for the child's sake. You need to be able to remain this man's friend.
2007-07-19 17:31:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you move out. You need to tell him that this relationship is not working but I want you to still be apart of our child's life. Set up visiting days and move on. Have you meet someone else? Why are you so stressed about it seems like you are making it worse not better.
2007-07-19 17:45:26 · answer #3 · answered by xyz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Baby, pack his things (or throw them out) and change the locks if its your place. I guarantee he'll get the message.Or if the lease is in both your names, sublet your half of the place and move out yourself. You do not have to live with someone you can't stand. No one should have to live with all that stress on a daily basis. If he's a good guy he will continue to be a good dad, but you don't have to be his girl anymore if you don't want to. Good luck!
2007-07-19 17:28:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Geeeeze
Why don't you just tell him what you told us....only don't be such a dick about it.....be NICE, if that's possible for you, and tell him that you don't love him at all anymore and think it best he move on, but give him rights to see your kid tho.
Communicate to him, and let him know all these things. This atmosphere won't be good for the kid at all.
I wish you luck......you both need to be happy, but more importantly, the kid needs a happy home.
2007-07-19 17:38:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way you're going to remove him from your life is to tell him straight out. You need to put serious thought into your decision and peacefully explain to him that your feelings for him have changed. Make sure to be fair though, since you two have a daughter, you can't expect to completely erase him. I hope everything works out.
2007-07-19 17:28:23 · answer #6 · answered by mymacbookisahorcrux ツ 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why are you calling him your bf? If he's your bf, of course he comes over! If you want to break up... break up, but he'll always have a right to see his child -- you're the one that chose to have a child with him.
Quit being a bi*** and be straightforward and honest about your feelings... set boundaries and move on...What's all the whining about?
2007-07-19 17:26:19 · answer #7 · answered by Bentley 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to his face that its over and he needs to move out by a certain date. If that doesnt work call the police and get a restraining order
2007-07-19 18:01:39 · answer #8 · answered by llexiann30 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are so freaking tired, the answer is simple, Quit b**ching and move out.
From the sound of it he will be relieved.
Do you intend on leaving his kid?
You sound like a real prize yourself. It probably takes all of his resolve not to crack your @ss a couple times.
You seem to be one spoiled little brat who is ill prepared to grow up herself much less raise a kid.
2007-07-19 17:39:08 · answer #9 · answered by Flagger 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
who pays the rent? if it's him, you need to leave. it's unfortunate that your daughter will be caught in the middle. more detail might have gotten you a better answer. is he a good man or a jerk? have you tried counseling? does he love you and treat you and your daughter well?
2007-07-19 17:44:34 · answer #10 · answered by TLC 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋