I'm 24 guy and had a relationship with another guy whose 28 this year. We meet way back and entered into a relationship which lasted about 3 years. I live in a predominantly catholic country (phils) that's why we had to hide. everything started smoothly until he said that he now sees me only as a friend. it really broke me apart, bec I'm the kind of person who wud really "fight w/ the flow" of things.. he said he wanted to have a family. I don't wanna be selfish, and I want him to be happy, its just that I can't move on... Right now i'm giving it all my strength not to see him, bec i know I still cannot face him... Right now I don't know if I should go now with the flow (straight rel) bec i'm afraid that it will happen again... someone saying that they wanted to make a family... I know i'm kinda pathetic but please help, don't know where to turn to anymore... what makes it more hard is the fact that nobody knows our orientation... I wish I could write more but the space is limited....
2007-07-19 09:36:26 · 6 answers · asked by Jackinthepants4 y 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Being gay is about the sex, not the relationship. After 3 years, things are stale, everything that can be done is done. It's time to find new people, new experiences.
Isn't it a wonderful life you chose for yourself?
2007-07-19 09:44:40 · answer #1 · answered by Dr Jello 7 · 0⤊ 8⤋
You have to move on. If you can a change of venue might help. If you can find a support group thats a place to start. HUG
2007-07-19 16:44:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
In time you will feel better, trust me!! Go out and try to find somone else!
2007-07-23 09:20:13 · answer #3 · answered by ziggy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should not hide who you are. it will only hinder your happiness. just like it messed with your relationship.
2007-07-19 16:42:37 · answer #4 · answered by qaz 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
usually you will get over break ups it just takes some time dont worry
2007-07-19 16:41:51 · answer #5 · answered by Lollipop 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
just give it time...
2007-07-19 16:46:28 · answer #6 · answered by brittanykoren86 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋