My brother moved in with me and my neighbor left his wife for him. The wife is now saying I let my brother steal her husband & she is sooo mad (at me, for what)...I didn't know her husband was gay...This is crazy, right.
2007-07-19 08:00:08 · 21 answers · asked by ........ 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
LOL~ I'm bi and our dad is a preacher....
I'm sure we make him proud.... :- )
2007-07-19 08:07:42 · update #1
That's not your fault. your brother is his own person.
2007-07-19 08:03:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
You cannot steal a person from another person, because people are not possessions.
She is upset, because the person she loves does not love her. and she is just looking for someone to blame, and you are an easy target right now. Eventually she will come to terms with the fact that her husband was bi or gay, and fell in love with someone else. It is unfortunate but it happens all the time.
2007-07-19 15:16:24 · answer #2 · answered by C J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't steal a person. They leave. The person has free will and makes decisons on their own. If they wanted to fix things, they would have talked it out and explained, but they didn't. They just left, things happen but it is no ones fault, especially if someone or other didnt know they were gay.
2007-07-19 15:13:29 · answer #3 · answered by tammy p 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Crazy but not unusual. Also, she may not have know her husband was gay, so she is lashing out. Whatever the issue, it is not your issue to take on. You are not responsible for the behavior and decisions of your brother or his boyfriend. Good Luck :)
2007-07-19 15:05:56 · answer #4 · answered by Bridget C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't "steal" a person, if the relationship had been secure he wouldn't have left. You aren't your brothers keeper, if it hadn't been your brother it sounds like the guy would have left her for some other guy.
2007-07-19 16:10:57 · answer #5 · answered by IndyT- For Da Ben Dan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes u can steal a person
but in ur situation doesnt sound like its at all you fault or that it has anything to do with you
i think it was pretyy disrespectful of your brother to mess around your relationship with your neighbours like that though
2007-07-19 15:05:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like a dream come true, bi and beautiful. You could easily steal me, I'll help.
2007-07-19 15:14:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like Brokeback, her husband is a lying cheat. I would be mad too. It's not your fault though. She should take her anger out on the two of them.
2007-07-19 15:04:21 · answer #8 · answered by TRACER ™ 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I've seen it happen alot before.
And tell me why is it always the preacher's daughter that are the fun ones?
2007-07-19 15:28:24 · answer #9 · answered by P&S - ßαDß●Ϋ™ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yea that is crazy if her husband was gay then why in the hell did he marry her?? tell her to get over it move on she can find someone that is not gay ans find a real man
2007-07-19 15:04:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You didn't let Your brother do anything; the hubby left by himself, without Your help. She'll get over it...
2007-07-19 15:45:49 · answer #11 · answered by sAm cbt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋