How to fall out of love :) ?

Hi Moon,
You cannot will yourself to be absolutely out of love with someone.... Even a grave deception by him/her couldnt do it.... Detach yourself from the one you love, and forget and maybe in time you will.......
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Don't attempt to destroy love from your 'heart' , ever.... :) .. Be glad that in a seemingly cruel society, you are still capable of loving unconditionally.... Just attempt to transform 'in love' to 'love.' ...You put alot of love into a relationship, so you deserve the good memories.....
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Go ahead and remember the best... and forget the rest... Know that there is more to "your life" than loving or being loved by a certain person..... Love others by simply "smiling".. and doing good deeds for others... without expecting anything in return, (even appreciation) ...and never allow anyone to take advantage of you....!
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The "more" you love a person (not meaning 'in love') , the easier it will be to let that person go.......
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Thanks, for the question! :)

Have a wonderful day, too! :D

Take care of yourself, Moon!!

2007-07-19 08:12:11 · answer #1 · answered by Kimberly 6 · 4⤊ 1⤋

It's possible, but it doesn't happen over night.
I know sometimes it can take a long time and sometimes it can happen fast. I think it you're treated nicely by the person you love, it will take a long time to fall out of love. If you were treated badly, it's not so hard to quit loving that person.
Maybe finding the person who is right for you helps to stop loving the one you left behind a little easier.

2007-07-19 07:44:35 · answer #2 · answered by Breezey is saying HAPPY BIRTHDAY 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋

I don't think you ever really "fall" back out of love once you are in it. The reason I say that is that I will always love my last love with all my heart although we aren't together any longer. I have married since him but, when I think about him, it is with respect and adoration. We will never be a couple again and may not even speak again but that feeling of loving him will never go away. I may not be "in love" with him but that's different.

I love him on a different level now. Does that make any sense at all??

sandy :O)

2007-07-19 07:52:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋

I've never fallen out of love. . . I may not be so enamored with someone, but I will always love them once I do. My first boyfriend from high school, almost 20 years ago? Still love him! Not *in* love with him ~ and don't even talk to him, but I will always love him, and be happy for him when things are going good for him.
Have a great day!

2007-07-19 11:37:15 · answer #4 · answered by shellbugger 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋

Go on with your life you will always love say another but not with such intensity level its the intensity level of your love for another that can do damage to your heart and soul and mind for that matter................Cut off people and things that remind you of the beloved that you need to avoid to move forward in your life..............

If you are constantly reminded of a beloved that you are trying to forget through other people you will never heal or grow stronger in the end....or slowly fall away from a love that you need to find that is good for you :))))

2007-07-19 08:06:06 · answer #5 · answered by Rita 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋

Single.

2016-05-17 11:40:59 · answer #6 · answered by maple 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋

Start a new relationship and another and another and another. Soon enough your phone will ring off the hook and you won't have time to think about your loved one. Eventually, you get over it but not fully. It still hurts from time to time but it's life.

2007-07-19 07:50:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋

have a fall from the top of a bridge still u r in love alas! no way out,contact nitron circle of experts

2007-07-19 07:59:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋

Hi, Moon! :)

You "fall out of love" when your basic needs (be it physical, emotional, etc.) aren't being met (and even without consciously being aware of that fact).

That's why we have to work hard to MAINTAIN relationships and always see them as wonderful works in progress. =)

2007-07-21 12:00:12 · answer #9 · answered by Sin™ 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋

Take the rose colored glasses off and see things for what they really are. A good helping of reality gets you on your way.

2007-07-19 07:47:00 · answer #10 · answered by Threeicys 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋

How to fall out of love :) ?

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