What do you do if you care for some one that is married?

Question

I care a hole lot for this man.But he is married. We spend a lot of time togeather. What should I do?

He has left his wife, pluse takes care of me. He also filed for Dorvice.

Answer 1

You need to move away , delete his # from your phone, tell him not to call you again, you are asking for trouble, do you want to marry a man who cheats on his wife ? he will do it again,,

Answer 2

Run, My husband has a girlfriend, he did not tell her he was married at first, but when she found out she continued to date him, she is now pregnant with his child. He and are are divorcing this has torn our family apart. Some men seek another women when they are having problems with their spouse which adds to the problem. Send this man back to his wife to work out what ever problems they have. Don't contribute to their problems. If and when this man becomes free you may want to continue a relationship with him. You deserve a man that belongs to you and only you and his wife deserves the same. If he is cheating I am sure he being dishonest as well. Put yourself in his wife shoes how would you feel if this was your husband. You are also putting your heart on the line you may get hurt in the long run. There are other fish in the sea don't get your heart set on this man that is attached to someone else.

Answer 3

Run away! There is NOTHING positive that come out of such a relationship.

I'm sorry, but it is a proven truth.

There are alot of reasons why these relationships develop. Regardless of what he tells you about his marriage, his wife & their relationship - stay objective. Think about how you would feel if you were married and your husband was confiding and developing a close relationship with another woman. You would not like it.

Trust me...it's a deadend road.

Save your energy, love & affection for someone who is free to give it back! You deserve better!!!

Good luck!!!

Answer 4

You should be respectful of his wedding vowels..if he is spending a lot of time with you then clearly he has some issues of his own and shame on him for trying to bring you into his messed up world...put yourself in the other womens shoes how would you feel if your man was spending a lot of time with another women...enough said you already know what the right thing to do is...

Answer 5

Why are you spending time together? How does his wife not know?
Come on. With 6 billion people in the world this is the guy you want to put energy into?

Answer 6

STOP .. He's Married for crying out loud. Imagine his Wife.... he treats her the same as you.. how would you feel if in her shoes, knowing what he is saying to you and laughing together? Tell him to go home and pamper her and you go find someone else, your better off. Good Luck

Answer 7

Stop spending time with him...stop being a fool...stop now, or you will be writing back, "I am in love with a married man, he promises to get a divorce, but says his wife could not stand it at this time...later." Yea, right. This story is soooooo old. You know damned good and well you can stop this at any time, but you ask what should you do????? Get real

Answer 8

You must wait for the divorce. Just keep in mind if he cheated on his wife to be with you. Chances are he'll cheat on you too.

A tiger doesn't change his strips.

Answer 9

You should forget about it and find a man who is available to you! If the married man cares about you, tell him to get a divorce and call you when it is final - if not, you will forever be nothing but the "other woman"!!!

Answer 10

Well if he's filed for divorce and takes care of you and you really like him, then why are you asking. Take a chance on him. And don't listen to that once a cheater always a cheater crap. I would persue him, but I always get what I want!