My husband likes to go on my website called myspace. He lies to my face that he has been on it?! Then he ask questions like why am I talking to people I don't know and why am I talking to guys and telling them we are having problems and we are trying to work them out. He gets mad over stupid things. The last time I told him I was going to delete my account what can I do to have personal convos with my friends and family?
2007-07-19 07:27:58 · 10 answers · asked by Ashley R 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I can't take no more fights over the net I told him if he deleted his things I would do the same he says to me no I am not deleting my stuff.
2007-07-19 07:30:31 · update #1
I would never cheat on my husband I am home all day everyday with our son. But I never ever would cheat on him. I love him to much and it seems to me that he thinks I am going to cheat on him. I have no intentions on hurting him!
2007-07-19 07:32:31 · update #2
not post it on myspace, thats not very private... you can send emails or call one another.
Myspace is ok so long as your not on there flirting with people
2007-07-19 07:30:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I also have been in your situation...trying to have adult contact so not to die of boredom (though I love my child's company). Then hubby accuses...
I got rid of my account altogether. I also had a long conversation with my husband about WHY he would think that. I just went back to using the telephone. It takes less time, it's much more intimate, and it takes away any doubt my husband had.
On the other hand, people sometimes accuse you of things they are thinking about doing, or have done, out of guilt.
Communicate with him
2007-07-19 14:41:59 · answer #2 · answered by weatheredmom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put non private info. in your my space. He is obviously embarrassed about the things your putting in there, and doesn't feel that you discussing your marial problems with other men is appropriate. Well, I agree!! Have private emails with your friends if you need to talk to someone. Both of you need to get rid of my space cause it's making you both uncomfortable. I am on Facebook and I have wonderful pictures of me and my husband on there and include him in my profile. You both should include eachother.
2007-07-19 14:36:48 · answer #3 · answered by sun day 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you talking to guys you dont know on myspace?
Seriously this is probably one of the reasons you are having problems.
2007-07-19 14:32:57 · answer #4 · answered by To The Point 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mm i guess whats wrong is that you talk to guys that you dont know .its for sure soo bad for your husband he'll feel bad and he will hv a lot of doubts.. but you hv the right to talk to your friends and family,,, the best thing is honesty and if for sure ur not related to other guys you should have no problem putting your husband next to you while openin your site.so that he4 will trust you
2007-07-19 14:42:14 · answer #5 · answered by tanya a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like the two of you need to get rid of your computer and get a life. There is too much out there to make yourselves happy for you to fight over such nonsense. Marriage is about making each other happy. Anything that makes your spouse unhappy is out of bounds.
2007-07-19 14:38:18 · answer #6 · answered by crystalonyx3 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Omg I almost went thru the same thing! I deleted mine...he was sopose delete his.... he hasn't but he hasn't been on it for months cuz my gurls look for me! I loved myspace but it was way too much drama! Both of you should cancel your accounts.
2007-07-19 14:35:50 · answer #7 · answered by «MöÑî★Kï» 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
"what can I do to have personal convos with my friends and family?" Ever hear of a telephone?
2007-07-19 19:09:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once a liar always a liar, remember that!!!
2007-07-19 14:32:33 · answer #9 · answered by kim t 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should knwo that nothing onthe web is private..... it's called make a phone call
2007-07-19 14:32:29 · answer #10 · answered by Brandi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋