even when they are pretty and will do anthing for him WHY DO MEN CHEAT?
2007-07-19 06:47:25 · 30 answers · asked by nikki 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Some men are just not temperamentally cut out to be monogamous, but they don't want to admit it.
Some men like the feeling of excitement they get from being involved in deception of their wives.
Some men think that if they are using the other woman just for sex, it isn't really cheating-- it's "just sex."
Some men grow apart from their wives over time, and then find a woman who they want to get involved with-- and rather than being honest with their wives that they want to end the marriage, they just get into another relationship.
Some men marry for convenience and cheat for fun.
Some men are contemptuous of all women and don't believe they owe a woman faithfulness-- they resent that women try to "own" them or "control" them.
Whatever the reasons, the surest predictor of a man's future behavior is his past and present behavior. If a woman takes time to get to know a man, she can usually tell if he's most likely to cheat. Was he faithful in previous relationships? Why/how did previous relationships end? Does he blame his partner(s) for prior breakups? How does he treat people in general-- is he honest, truthful and considerate to people, or is he deceptive, self-centered, and uncaring except as far as getting his needs met?
FWIW, we usually know more than we think we know about the people we're in a relationship with, and I think that a lot of people can see after a relationship has broken down that there were problems apparent very early on, but they just didn't want to acknowledge those problems.
2007-07-19 07:00:14 · answer #1 · answered by Karin C 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
REAL men don't cheat, & the reason is for the thrill...the adventure.. a new "Person" is fun & exciting. But for every cheating man there's a cheating woman. If a man (or woman) is treated poorly at home or if they feel neglected, they eventually look for the attention they feel they are missing.
2007-07-19 14:30:55 · answer #2 · answered by WhyNotMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men don't cheat. Not real men with any sort of honor. Boys cheat. Dogs cheat. And women are just as guilty. But when you come to a point in your life when someone elses feelings are more important than your selfish desires you understand what it means to be in true love. Then cheating no longer appeals to you. And the feeling of being honorable feels alot better than guilty sex. If your "man" cheats lose him. He's not the one.
2007-07-19 14:00:27 · answer #3 · answered by Matthew S 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
because they feel young and attractive again finding something new and different, it boost their low self worth, for a time they feel desirable again and wanted till they get to know the new person and who they really are, and see it isn't much different than their wife, so they may at this time return to their wife if she is still there. they also have no character, no conscience, and are cowardly for not staying and working out the problems, they will experience the same problems with the new person after awhile, but when they first meet them they can't see that. they see only what they want to, finding fault with the wife, while seeing everything about the new love as wonderful.
2007-07-19 13:57:06 · answer #4 · answered by jude 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes people cheat because they want to be intimate with more than just one person. People will also cheat because they are lacking something in their relationship. Sometimes this something is sexual, but often it is not. If someone has it all and still cheats, I'd say it is due to being spoiled.
2007-07-19 14:07:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men cheat on there wives for all the same reasons that women cheat on there husband. There is no one specific reason
2007-07-19 13:55:41 · answer #6 · answered by ~NIKKI~ 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
For the same reasons women cheat on their husbands.
2007-07-19 19:22:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are like every other male thing is this world.
Take a look at bulls, they go from cow to cow. That's what men do. Thats why we call them pigs. Cause they are like an animal, I don't think they have feelings.
If you like chocolate think about this scenerio.
Go into a chocolate shop. You can have one piece, or you can have several pieces that are better and some that are worse....which would you choose.
2007-07-19 13:53:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm not sure why. Do they think it's okay? Do they think they can get away with it? Have our mothers and fathers done such a poor job of instilling integrity into their sons that they don't care?
Some men are jerks. The rest of us are not.
2007-07-19 13:51:10 · answer #9 · answered by Kyle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some men are just *** holes and don't know what they are doing to us,some just don't give a **** but realize later what they have done and regret it,but that goes for women to they are not so innocent it's just the facts of life some people have it so good and some don't some of us don't allow ourselves to get hurt yet some of us live day by day hurting deeply.
2007-07-19 14:05:30 · answer #10 · answered by Greeley 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋