Name the most important qualitities I should look for.
2007-07-19 06:33:22 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Fortunately, I am one of the blessed young ladies out there that found a "true-keeper!" I love my man til death do us part and then some. He might not be the best, he might not be perfect, but he is the best for me and my kids and he is most definately perfect for me and my kids. The best way for me to respond to this is be simply describing him to you, then you can decide if you feel that I found my pot of gold or just came across some loose change.
He is understanding, he is nurturing, he is sesitive at appropriate times, he is compromisable, he makes sacrifices for his family, he is respectful, he is spiritual and has a relationship with God, he is sentimental, he is sexy, his smile is brightest, he has a good sense of humor, he puts his family first, he goes to church with me every Sunday, he is a worker and a provider, he is responsible, he is honest, he is faithful, he is trustworthy in every aspect, he is a good budgeter, he has positive/realistic current and future goals, he has his diploma, he has 3 beautiful daughters, his height is perfect, he is strong minded and willed, he is determined, he is intellectual, we have great communication, he is motivated, he makes me smile, our intimacy couldn't be any better, he is open minded, he is just HIM and I love all of him 100%.
So you see, these are qualities that I looked for, and thank you Jesus I have been blessed to find at 100% in this man and needless to say we are getting married in 2 days on Saturday, July 21st, 2007 at 12noon...It don't get no better, other than his 3 girls and my 2 girls. Now we established a beautiful family of 5 girls and each other....now what do you think??? Think those are good qualities?? And imagine that all in one man...I got a good man, good luck in your search!!!
2007-07-19 07:38:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A good guy shows he loves you by doing or going the distance in what ever needs to be done. Honest, hard working, reliable, will meet you 1/2 way on anything even shopping, having good parents, knowing you mean more to him than some computer!!! Taking vacations together,spending money on you, giving you a gift because you are having a bad day, doing things WITH OUT being asked to do them.
2007-07-19 14:02:35 · answer #2 · answered by kim t 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a good man would be;one who works,pays attention to the women he's with,help with the kids(feeding,dressing,homework,discipline,hugging and playing with them)also being romantic at any given time. a man like that is hard to find. most men think all they have to do is work and the rest is left to the women.and they wonder why we are tired all the time.they would be to if they did half of what we do,everyday.I blame this on mothers because most women tend to do everything for their sons and not their daughters.also a good man would'nt cheat or lie or steal
2007-07-19 14:00:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My prince charming
Has a degree in something or is working at a job because he loves it
Inteligent- can hold a conversation
Geeky- There is just something sexy about a guy who knows his way around a computer and can put up with my gamming addiction
Tall- 6ft plus
Romatic- Holds my hand, puts his arm around me, just generaly happy to be with me
Has to like kids because i have 2.
2007-07-19 13:41:43 · answer #4 · answered by mable3691214 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In one word - respectful
In otherwords - honest, trustworthy (not the same as honest), doesn't verbally or physically hurt you and commited to both you and the relationship.
2007-07-19 14:22:09 · answer #5 · answered by Simba 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ME... I'll give you Trust, Communication, and Committment, but there has to be an attraction to each other first
2007-07-19 13:38:27 · answer #6 · answered by Marty B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A man who is loving, self sufficient, honest and smart.
2007-07-19 13:36:01 · answer #7 · answered by frawlicious 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
big one honest, loving, confident in himself, can take care of himself(another bigg one) no one needs another kid to look after, i found mine good luck finding yours too.
2007-07-19 13:38:33 · answer #8 · answered by AMBER 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honesty and faithfulness are number one with me.
2007-07-19 13:57:07 · answer #9 · answered by working gal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He works - but not excessively so.
2007-07-19 13:36:33 · answer #10 · answered by lizthompson21061 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋