and u knew it would be hard taking care of this baby alone being that you already have two other kids by him ages,5and 7 would you keep the baby or terminate the pregancy.. you have no help from no one.and all the money left after everything is 3,000$ and your job.and his parents are dead and so are yours.
2007-07-19 06:08:59 · 19 answers · asked by ladytee 4 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
I would find a way and keep the baby. I could not imagine giving something up that I shared between someone I loved with all my heart that had passed away. I'd consider the baby an angel sent to me to help me through the most horrible ordeal of my life.
2007-07-19 06:14:06 · answer #1 · answered by arielmoonstar 2 · 7⤊ 0⤋
If it were me I would definitely keep the baby. This baby would be so specail to me because its a part of him. I would also consider how he would feel if he were here, and what his reaction to an abortion would be. Im sure it would be hard but at least the other two are of school age and could even help you out some. There are all types of government assistance you could get, my mom still gets a socail security check from when my dad died. There are methods out there to help you out financailly and think how you would feel if you got that abortion then decided you shouldnt have, by then it would be to late. Good luck, I dont know if the is a scenerio but if this is the real case I will be thinking of you and wish you the best.
2007-07-19 13:30:10 · answer #2 · answered by Katie 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Can't you make an arrangement with an adoption agency to help pay the cost of the hospital if not all? Then at birth the baby can be given to a family that can care for it and you'll know he or she is getting the best. Good luck.
2007-07-19 13:14:50 · answer #3 · answered by Irish 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No one can really advise you what to do. but if my b/f or husband just passed away and I found out I was pregnant I would be overjoyed. you have a part of your husbad back , I know you have 2 other kids and raising kids are hard I am a single mother raising 4 and I have met a wonderful man that has come into our lives.. but I know its hard and I still have my mother. I am currently going thru a miscarrage now and even though i know it would be harder i feel like i just lost a part of me and my b/f and that hurts. so if i was to loose him (knock on woods) and then god gave me that i would see it as a blessing and I would definetly keep our baby,,
Good Luck
2007-07-19 13:28:03 · answer #4 · answered by jus*1*more 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would feel blessed and regard the baby as a gift to help me heal after losing my husband. There's no way I would terminate the pregnancy, it would be a tangible reminder that life goes on and it's beautiful.
2007-07-19 13:16:53 · answer #5 · answered by KooriGirl 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You get a social security check for each child every month if your husband died... the same thing happened to my cousin but she was 7 months pregnant why would you want to terminate the pregnancy a gift the man you love gave you.... before he passed away????
2007-07-19 13:44:44 · answer #6 · answered by Keri 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Definitely keep the baby, there are lots of programs to help with the money situation, and my job earnings will only get better over time.
What a precious gift that I could have one more part of him in my life.
2007-07-19 13:16:42 · answer #7 · answered by daisyk 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
This question depends on moral ethics. Do you bring a child into the world you cannot feed or kill a living creature in you. I guess religion also comes into it.
2007-07-19 13:17:57 · answer #8 · answered by lighthousecastle 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
either keep the baby or if you really really can't then put it up for adoption.
There are sooo many couples out there who can't have children, but want one. but again i would suggest you do everything you can to keep him/her.
Don't terminate the pregnacy.
2007-07-19 13:14:32 · answer #9 · answered by BasketballBabeRW 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would certainly not have an abortion, he died and then you found out you were pregnant, that is a gift, a miracle why would you throw that away, you should feel blessed.
2007-07-19 13:13:05 · answer #10 · answered by Muffin 5 · 6⤊ 0⤋