My girlfriend has an identical twin and they are always wearing something similar and it bugs me to death!
I have a bad habit of grabbing my girlfriends butt...really bad and I paid the price for it last night.
Last night, I picked up my girlfriend at a family party after work. I came in through the door and gave her a BIG kiss and and a BIG hug with my hands on her butt (squeezing). When I gave her the kiss I gave a little tongue action.
Everyone looked at me (including her) like a deer caught in a headlight. Only to realize that its not her but, her sister. Everyone saw what I did including my girlfriend. It was really odd, how do I get out of this one? or at least stop feeling like an idiot!
~I haven't slept yet~
Serious advice only please!
2007-07-19 05:56:22 · 47 answers · asked by Cerealkiller 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Tell her it was an accident duh...LOL..And why did the sister let all this happen? She just let you give her tongue action ...hmmmmmmmmmmm
2007-07-19 05:59:31 · answer #1 · answered by Dustin R 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
DAMN! Sorry to hear that happened to you. I wonder why the sister let you tongue her and I wonder why the other sister did not say anything. If they dress alike, I would just tell my girlfriend that it was a serious mistake. I would then try to figure out a way to tell them apart. Are they exactly the same size? Maybe there is a mark on the body, that she has that her sister doesn't. How about her hair? Do they do it the exact same way or is there a difference. There has go to be something that can help you and I know it's hard for men but you are going to have to be more attentive in order to make sure you have the right girl. Good luck to you!
2007-07-19 06:12:17 · answer #2 · answered by frawlicious 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh come on, it should have been hilarious and everyone should have been laughing. My husband is an identical twin too and not that it has happened (because I know the difference) but if it did, my brother-in-law would have stopped it before anything happened and everyone would have busted out laughing! Just tell your girl to laugh it off and say it was a big mistake and you love only her. Say "your sister is like a sister to me, YUCK I can't believe I accidentally did that!" There, that should help a little.
2007-07-19 06:03:31 · answer #3 · answered by sun day 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Was she returning the favor? If so, how the heck were you to know...and really...do they look so much like one another that it is this easy to make such a mistake?
2. Is this the first time? Or have these two been in on a little game of switcheroo?
3. How does your girlfriend feel about it? Does she see how this could happen? Is she madder at you or her sister who was par-taking in the event? Or herself for letting it happen?
I know this is odd -but, something tells me that someone there could have stopped it before you got too hot and heavy into things............I say the twins can take partial blame. Ease your mind...talk with them ...set up a way to know proof positive who you are about ready to suck face with. Maybe they need to dress a little different...........something..........
2007-07-19 06:07:05 · answer #4 · answered by Quad Momma LUV the dunes! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you for real????? it's actually pretty funny. you only see that kind of stuff on tv. but on a serious note, you need to apologize to your girlfriend first, then her sister, then to their family. and what was the sister thinking? she's partly responsible in my opinion, she should have stopped you as soon as you put your hands on her. i don't know, this whole thing sounds like it could have been a practical joke on you too! i just don't understand how so many people can just stand there and watch you do all of this without saying something before it got to the tongue action. good luck!
p.s. maybe your girlfriend should try to look a little different unless she wants this to happen again.
2007-07-19 06:04:08 · answer #5 · answered by luv 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It was an honest mistake. Don't beat yourself up about it. Talk to your girlfriend and see if she can't wear something that would identify her next time. Perhaps you could buy her a watch, or a necklace of some sort--something that she would enjoy wearing that would keep you on guard. Everyone should understand that you make a mistake, so don't worry about that. I'm sure you apologized to her sister, so just move on and let this die down. Buy your girl a nice watch and get some rest. Best wishes!
2007-07-19 06:06:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF this is an honest question (which I doubt, I have never seen identical twins that identical), then IF they dress alike and look alike, what the hell...they do this to confuse those about them as a joke...so, they fell victim to their own joke...serves them both right! IF they are old enough to be a girl friend(s), they should be exhibiting individual styles of dress, actions, etc...NO ONE is identical to someone else, and twins who perpetuate this are asking for trouble.
Get some sleep....you didn't do anything wrong, your girlfriend should find this funny...if she does not, they SHE has some serious issues, not you.
2007-07-19 06:04:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sleep man, sleep! I wouldn't worry too much about it if I were you. This couldn't have been the first time that identical twins were mixed up.
Maybe she'll start wearing different clothes.
You DO however, need to be concerned with her saying things like "you don't even know me"...and "you can't even tell it's me"...type of stuff. Quickly think of something (on her body, preferably) that your aware of that, in your mind, separates her from her sister. This way she'll at least know that you pay attention.
Apologize, and go to sleep, man! Go to sleep...
2007-07-19 06:53:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not your fault. It's not like you PURPOSELY fondled and kissed your girlfriend's twin. If the two of them are identical and tend to dress alike...but really have no distinguishing characteristics, how were you to know? Your girlfriend should try to understand this... She should also stop dressing like her sister! It's cute when they're kids, but they're grown women now! They should get their own individual identities. If she can't forgive you, it's her loss. Good luck.
2007-07-19 06:03:17 · answer #9 · answered by CrazyLove 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time to go on the offensive-- Tell Gf- "see what happens when you dress so much alike all the time-Ican't tell you apart--
Don't say " Your sister kisses better "or" has a nicer butt."
Seriously-- This is a laugher-- a story to pass around for a long time-- and Gf shouldn't be mad.
2007-07-19 06:08:38 · answer #10 · answered by Sophie B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG! Those twins should know better to not look alike by dressing similar . Blame the twins for you making a mistake of idenity. Sereously, it sounds like to me they're playing you by messing with your head. I suggest you have a talk with BOTH of the girls and that they should dress alittle more different from the two and plus I think that is disrespectful of them playing with your head to see who you would make your move on. I use to go through that with two twin guys, the only way I could tell them apart was my ex had piercings and the other had glasses and only very few piercings. Yet they both use to love messing with my head by telling them apart and it pissed me off. Don't fall for their games, Tell them to knock it off!
2007-07-19 06:45:05 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋