I'm an Aquarius and hes a Libra. Why does he feel such a connection when i just want to be friends?

Answer 1

I think astrology is great but in this case astrology has nothing to do with it. You girls have got to realize when you say (i just want to be friends" to a guy. we don't UNDERSTAND that... You need to tell him NO. We understand that but us guys love a challenge so don't back down. Have a great day "friend" hahah... Mark

Answer 2

Oh, my gosh. I have an Aquarius ex that's the same way you are!!!!! And I'm a Libra who doesn't always get it, too. So you guys talk for hours and hours about everything from movies to religion to sex ot politics? We sure do! That could be where the connection comes from. Don't spaz too much. If you just want to be friends, then tell him that. He just feels things for you, that's all! And an Aquarius's zany antics and progressive thinking is soooo attractive to a Libra! Where else are we gonna find someone who is so interesting? But we don't like cling ourselves. So if you tell him he's clinging, he'll back off. But yeah, I've read Aquarians value friends over a relationship. We Libras love being in relationships, so we don't get that. You'll have to explain it to us. Good luck!

Answer 3

Hehe! Omg...I was just reading the other day about how Aquarians just love being friends. Whereas Libras are always looking for partnerships...friendships, romantic, etc.

I think of Libras as the poets of the zodiac. They're always flirting and giving flowery compliments. :P But watch out...they tend to be pretty fickle, I think.

Aquarians seem to be more detached about their feelings and favour platonic relationships. At least, the guys do...I haven't read up on much of the astrology for the females. Um...you could always just google some sites using the following queries:

1. Female Aquarius
2. Male Libra
3. Aquarius and Libra compatibility

But keep in mind, it's all just for fun. In reality, it most likely has nothing to do with your signs. :D Maybe he's just interested you because you two have so much in common or his phermones are just reacting to yours. *shrugs* =D

But remember, if you just want to remain friends, don't let him push you into anything more. They can be PRETTY persuasive! Don't fall for his charms. :P Cover your ears and yell, "blah blah blah" if you have to.

And best of luck! =D

Answer 4

Friendship Compatibility of Aquarius with Libra
You and Libra have a natural affection for each other that is a joy to behold. Both of you are sociable creatures who love discussing the latest trends, ideas and news events. You're constantly amazed by this sign's breath of knowledge, while Libra is impressed by your depth of it. The two of you like sports that keep you moving, like racquetball and basketball. Intellectual interests like star-gazing and crosswords might also be a bond between you. You're both very musical and may enjoy playing songs or just listening to them. Libra loves to have your undivided attention, while you appreciate this sign's open-minded attitude. If you can put up with Libra's obsession with their appearance, they'll endure your absent-minded ways.

Information came from:
http://collect.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=horoscope

Answer 5

Because friendship is a higher form of love to you
Libra sees partnerships as higher.

But libra gets sad by rejection,especially if it happens continuously.

One day he will move on and find his partner if you pull the "lets be friends"card too many times.

And then a long while later, if you did love him romantically, you find him married and secretly wish he married you..

Aquarians can be their own worst enemies sometimes, especially since friendship confers more freedom and detachment which aquarius craves.

By the way, perhaps a gemini is more suited to an aquarian..
they're not as hard-up for partnerships because in their mind they're already partnered (twins).

So if you want to be friends, be firm.
Else just leave an opening "I want to be friends FIRST"

and he'll be strung along.

Answer 6

Libras have an innate romantic thing for Aquarius. He can't help it.

Answer 7

Because you two make a perfect match.