What do you do when you have an abusive boyfriend and you have two kids with him and you have no where to go. Don't even have a license or a vehicle. Cant' go to family members cause there is a abusive past.
2007-07-19 05:18:05 · 12 answers · asked by Lost 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Have him arrested the next time he hits you. They will make him leave the house and will not allow him to come back. Contact social services. Call you local battered woman shelter.
2007-07-19 05:22:59 · answer #1 · answered by thirsty mind 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are brave to ask and there IS an answer. You take your children (and a bag with a few toys and your clothing) and you go to the nearest church and ask the pastor where the nearest women's abuse center is located. Sometimes you can find that in the phone book, too, under "Abuse Hotline" . Once you get to the center, the people will give you food, beds and help finding a safe place to be and job to help you get started raising those kids on your own. PLEASE DO THIS. You need to get away from the abuse for the sake of your kids. You know that already. God Bless you.
2007-07-19 12:28:08 · answer #2 · answered by Wiser1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are places you can go. Go to the womens shelter where abused women go who have no other support at the moment. There has to be one in your area, look it up. They should be able to help you get what you need to be able to take care of those kids without him. You can do this, it's going to be so hard, but you need to stay focused and be determined to be an independent women. Who needs a man!!! Come on, I know you can do this. Best of luck.
2007-07-19 12:30:06 · answer #3 · answered by sun day 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to find a friend that will let you stay over.. or Go to a womans shelter.. You can even just call the cops so its on record.. So then that way if he trys to take the kids he wont be able to.. Good Luck with everything
2007-07-19 12:23:49 · answer #4 · answered by RS_AK 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Pack up the kids, go to the nearest police station, tell them your boyfriend is abusive and you want to get away from him. They will put you in a women's shelter, you will also probably have to file a restraining order against him. In the women's shelter they will help you get on your feet.
2007-07-19 21:26:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The are women's crisis intervention places almost every where. If not there is always a church in town that will help you get to the right people. As difficult as it may be you need to move out for the sake of the kids! Their safety and you do not want to perpetuate this behavior to the next generation.
2007-07-19 12:23:05 · answer #6 · answered by Willie J 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow ,thats awful ,but theres always a way out ive been in situation like this in the past so first thing you must do is next time call the cops get a restraing /protection order and while his in jail get it together girl thats no way to live .
good luck ,there are resources out there you just have to decide
ENOUGH IS ENOUGH
2007-07-19 12:24:13 · answer #7 · answered by AMBER 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sucks to be you. This is what you get for marrying a man you barely know and having not one but two kids with him. There are prevention methods for childbirth. It's your fault for not having a license or car or job or friends. You needed to get off your butt and do something with your life and now when you could have reaped the benefits, you have nothing because you are lazy.
The only thing you can do is call a cab and go move into a women's shelter. Or stay there and wait for him to kill you or the kids.
2007-07-19 12:22:32 · answer #8 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 5⤋
Your local womans shelter can assist
2007-07-19 12:23:39 · answer #9 · answered by mikebnchprss 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get help from somewhere...a trusted friend, a local church, or a woman's shelter. you can't let yourself be treated this way, you don't deserve it and neither do your children, think of them
2007-07-19 12:23:01 · answer #10 · answered by Megan 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋