I told my mom I was out with the guys but I was out with another woman behind my terrible wifes' back. I don't mind lying to my terrible wife but I can't stand the thought of lying to my mother.
2007-07-19 04:38:28 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
There is a difference between 'your' and 'you're' you morons! Google it!
2007-07-19 04:46:36 · update #1
why don't you get a divorce from YOUR terrible wife, you won't have to lie to YOUR mom cheating on YOUR wife means YOU ARE a cheater.. LOL GOOGLE THAT MORON!!!!!!!!
2007-07-19 05:06:16 · answer #1 · answered by boricua_2290 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋
First of all be honest with yourself. You evidently are very unhappy in your marriage. Sometimes pure honesty can get you results better than a lie. Tell both of them, you are unhappy. That this marriage did not turn out to be the happiness you deserve. Something is not right. The wife? Well, something was there when you married her. If it's gone then the marriage should be annulled or a separation filed. You will be happier in the long run, and your mom will be happy that you were honest..Your wife will lose any way you look at it...so you will have to accept that and go on. Get out if you are unhappy....the woman you went out with will have to be addressed too.
2007-07-19 04:47:11 · answer #2 · answered by chatterella 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Give your wife the same respect you give your mother. Do you really think your mother believes you? The "another woman" will catch on relatively quickly, as well. You probably won't be able to lie your way out, 3 women at a time.
2007-07-19 04:48:53 · answer #3 · answered by crittersitterjenna 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think the answer is obvious what you need to do..And I need to ask you something else..Are you sure you are asking the right question? Well, I feel a lady or a man needs to tell the other it is over..Leave with being looked at as a respectable man..Be honest with your wife..and tell her its over and you dont think it is working out..Your mother would tell you the same thing, if it is that bad..Talk to your mom..
Its already bad enough that it has gotten to this point anyways..For marriage should be viewed as trying to save, instead of just giveing up.. Giveing up is way to easy..
2007-07-19 04:47:01 · answer #4 · answered by tr 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Not only is lying immoral, you always get caught eventually. Assuming your wife is actually terrible (and that's a big assumption), it is still wrong and completely unproductive to be seeing other women while still married to her. If you have a problem with your wife, settle it, whatever that means. You can talk to her and try to resolve problems; you can go to a counsellor and try to work it out; or you can end it. But seeing other women while still married to her is not fair to anyone.
2007-07-19 04:43:27 · answer #5 · answered by Terri J 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Maybe YOUR a moron because your asking advice on how to deal with a stupid situation like this! Divorce your terrible wife and marry your mother, then you won't cheat cause you can't lie!
2007-07-19 04:53:22 · answer #6 · answered by sun day 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you are cheating on your wife then maybe you should confide in your mother and maybe she can give you some advice on what to do. If your wife is that terrible and you don't mind lying to her then maybe you are haveing issues just let her go on with her life and you go on with yours with whomever you are cheating on her with because you must not love her.
2007-07-19 04:43:23 · answer #7 · answered by pink daisy 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you have a terrible wife, get a divorce. No matter how terrible she is you don't have the right to cheat on her and lie to her. Split up, let her move on, you can move on that way you don't have to lie to anyone, including your mom.
2007-07-19 04:42:56 · answer #8 · answered by TelulahB 3 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Oh what a tangled web we weave
When first we practice to decieve.
Lying gets you nowhere.
Perhaps your wife is terrible because of you, she's aware of your deceiptful ways and she's getting back at you.
The best thing to do is cut your losses and get out. Why torture her, why torture yourself? The lies will come out and most likely will be used against you in the divorce proceedings.
2007-07-19 04:48:10 · answer #9 · answered by anniebammy 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Don't tell anyone. Your mom doesn't need to be burdened with a secret and the more people that know equals the more people who could let the secret out.
2007-07-19 07:06:12 · answer #10 · answered by I play the game 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋