Im 13 years old and my cousin (same age but boy) always trys to hump me like it be on the computer with my other cousin in the basement where the guest bedroom is and he would try to hump me on the bed i try to stop but hes way too strong for me once he held me down and put his hand up my shirt i started hitting him and screaming but he never stopped im so uncomfortable and i already tryed talking to him. hes taller and stronger then me so everytime i try to get out he holds me back.
is this normal how can i stop it
2007-07-19 04:27:25 · 16 answers · asked by Sarra L 2 in Health ➔ Women's Health
And he always gets a b**** from it and its really nasty and hes my cousin!
2007-07-19 04:28:14 · update #1
Thank you for answering i will tell someone now
2007-07-19 04:37:48 · update #2
This is not normal, you need to talk to a trusted adult like your parent asap. Don't let him bully like that, you don't deserve this kind of treatment from anyone, especially a family member.
2007-07-19 09:59:27 · answer #1 · answered by Fraulein 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My dear you need to report this to your parents. Your cousin is acting on his hormonal changes, and that is NOT cool.
If your parents won't help (because he's obviously one of your parents siblings child) then tell the parents of a friend, tell a school councilor, tell anyone you trust, and make sure you are NEVER alone with him.
He needs counseling and help, and he won't get it if you keep quiet. And even though there may not be any actual sexual contact, it's still molestation. I went through this with my daughter a few years ago.
PLEASE tell someone NOW and get counceling for yourself.
Good luck.
2007-07-19 04:37:45 · answer #2 · answered by glen w 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No its not normal. You should tell someone whats going on thats the only way that i got out of it and im a boy. trust me telling someone over him it works ^.^
2007-07-19 04:32:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's not normal, why would you even think it is? Tell your parents, his parents, teacher or counselor at school. If no one believes you or does not do anything about it, tell the police. Don't worry you won't get in trouble, but you should not allow this behavior to go on!
2007-07-19 04:33:38 · answer #4 · answered by venus11224 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats not right 4 him 2 do that u need 2 tell someone and stay away from him.
2007-07-19 04:41:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please do tell someone. He has no right to do that to you not to mention he's your cousin. Tell your mom so she can talk to his mom so they can keep him away from you. If you don't put it to and end now he might end up raping you and you don't want that at all.
2007-07-19 05:21:29 · answer #6 · answered by Workinmamma 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell someone NOW. GET OFF THE COMPUTER and tell someone. This is sexual abuse even if he is your cousin. Tell someone now.
2007-07-19 04:32:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell an adult, he shouldn't be treating you this way. He will continue if he's not made to stop. And it may go too far... it will hurt you emotionally and physically if you don't do something now..... take care!!!!
2007-07-19 04:33:04 · answer #8 · answered by cynthiagrammy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's not right. my cousin did that to me once and for now on i hang out w/ my older brother whenever we go there. so hang out with someone older and stronger than him. and that is considered sexual abuse.
2007-07-19 04:32:29 · answer #9 · answered by Felicia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hit him in the throat. It will knock him off.
Good luck talking to someone. Let us know how it goes!!
2007-07-19 04:58:30 · answer #10 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋