cremation..why take up space
2007-07-19 03:55:27
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answered by Lefty 7
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If I wasn't really banged up, Yea definitely. Families and friends need to be able to put some real closure on their grief. Saying goodbye to someone I loved so much, in a closed casket, didn't let me really say goodbye. I wish I had opened it even though I know there was a good reason for it to be closed.
I don't want people looking at my dead body, seems creepy to me, but I also know that seeing that they are really gone, helps.
People may have been creeped out, but I kissed my grandma on the lips several times while saying good-bye. It helped, I couldn't feel her being there at all.
2007-07-19 05:41:34
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answered by Linda B 6
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usually if there was no disfiguring in the death I've seen open casket. Sometimes with a sudden death, people have a tendency to need closure and with a closed casket its hard to achieve that.
2007-07-19 01:46:41
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answered by JLM 4
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Closed, I hate open casket
2007-07-19 01:44:57
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answered by Anonymous
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I am a lawyer so I want my casket to be an open and shut case.
2007-07-19 03:59:35
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answered by Anonymous
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I thought it was always open unless the body was um, ya know not in a viewable condition. I saw people take pics of the body at a funeral, that was creepy.
2007-07-19 01:45:43
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answered by Anonymous
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Cremated.
2007-07-19 02:32:30
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answered by Blue Oyster Kel 7
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Open provides closure
2007-07-19 02:46:38
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answered by Anonymous
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depends on how i looked haha. never saw a dead body till my granny died 9 years ago. it didnt freak me out at all, so open is fine long as i look good.
2007-07-19 02:22:21
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answered by Anonymous
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i would want it closed i went to a friends funeral 3 months ago (she was 28)and to know she was in there killed me i would have cracked up if i had seen her
2007-07-19 04:07:08
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answered by smurfette 3
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Neither. I am going to be cremated and there will be NO wake. If anyone truly needs to mourn my passing they can have a party.
2007-07-19 01:46:23
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answered by GRUMPY 7
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