Ladies, I have never managed to have an orgasm, and have taken to measures of exploring my own body to try and make this happen.
I always seem to manage to get to the point where I feel as if I am about to orgasm, but when I reach this point, I feel as if I am about to explode, but for some reason or another, I have to stop.
Has anyone else had similar problems? How did you overcome these?
Any advice appreciated.
2007-07-19 00:53:24 · 21 answers · asked by ♥Miss Inquisitive♥ 5 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Hi,
It most commonly occurs when a woman tries hard to achieve it. When achieving an orgasm becomes a goal for sexual intercourse, the increased pressure works against its achievement.
The mood of the partners during intercourse is also an important determinant of whether they are able to climax or not. If the woman is tensed during the act or the partners have other problems on their mind, achieving an orgasm may become difficult.
There is no specific treatment for the disorder. If it is because of dryness of the vagina, lubricants are given which help to make intercourse easier. If psychological help is sought, the partners are asked to relax during the act and enjoy it rather than work towards the achievemtn of an orgasm. The partners should know each other’s preferences and work towards maximizing the pleasure.
Partners are advised to communicate with each other and spend more time in foreplay. This helps to induce adequate lubrication. Other techniques of lovemaking like oral sex and mutual masturbation are advised. The best way to achieve orgasm is to remain positive and relax during sexual intercourse.
2007-07-19 01:17:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
The female orgasm is such a complicated thing. Not as easy as "one-two-three" as it is for guys! I guess the only advice I can give is keep practising! he he No seriously, the smallest thing can stop the whole process. Just try to relax and go with it... when you're at your most relaxed it will happen. It took me ages to realise most women don't orgasm during sex and need clitoral stimulation. I don't know if any of this helps, but just keep trying and make sure you re comfortable and relaxed!! ;)
2007-07-19 01:01:36 · answer #2 · answered by MJC 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
first of all, make sure that you are COMPLETELY relaxed. Nothing will happen if youre stressed...
You just have to find what works for you....and by the sounds of it, youre just getting to the point of climax and stopping just before you get there.
Keep going and you're sure to orgasm - if you have the compulsion to stop, then dont, youve just trained and conditioned yourself to stop at that point.
2007-07-22 12:38:29 · answer #3 · answered by xCassiEx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do feel like I am at the point of no return, but then I think of the days stresses and I lose it.
Maybe you should relax and blank everything beofre doing it, maybe it will help, saying that maybe I should practice what I preach!
2007-07-22 10:48:33 · answer #4 · answered by Rebz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some women feel that their clitoris is too sensitive... if you fold your inner labia over the top, then try that. I don't know but it may make the orgasm slightly easier to ride out. Everyone is different.
2007-07-19 01:50:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try concentrating more on sensations rather than thoughts and you're sure to achieve a full orgasmic experience
2007-07-19 01:23:53 · answer #6 · answered by JESSICA G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get some literature on the subject. Every body is different and you need to find your "spot" Consider using a sex toy also. Or some erotica to get you in the mood.
2007-07-19 01:01:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep exploring yourself and you will soon get over the fact that it gets 'too much' and you stop
or maybe when you are close to orgasming have your man be on top so that he is in control and you cant stop before you finish.
2007-07-19 00:59:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It is hard to explain.. you have to learn to "let yourself go". Sounds as though you have a problem with just allowing yourself to completely relax and enjoy the feeling. Try toys.. or communicating to a partner you trust wholeheartedly. Believe me.. it's definately worth the effort!! ;-)>
2007-07-19 00:58:25 · answer #9 · answered by Carrie C 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't think about it at the time. make sure u carry on doing what ever you are doing until u have orgasmed. e.g.Masturbating, Having sex etc....
relax!
let ur self go!
And don't stress, let it take u over!
Good Luck
2007-07-19 08:19:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋