What was the hardest thing for you to forgive someone for?

Answer 1

Murder

Good Luck!!!

Answer 2

I have well "had" this one friend who is best known for smoking your last cigarette, sleeping with your g/f, and in some cases your mother... now to top all this off, this guy also makes everyone else's problems in their own life, all about him.. Example: A friend of our grandfather passed away, we all decided to drive up there to surprise the family by showing up (several years ago we all said no more funerals after we lost three good friends), then at the last minute, he tells everyone, how this is a total inconvenience for him, cause he has work and his g/f is suppose to becoming in to town blah blah blah.

Now it wasn't any of those facts that made him want to stay home, or the fact that we say no more, in truth he wanted to see who would stay home with him to hang out there, he had the night off, he g/f wasn't coming. He wanted his own little pity party.

I still haven't forgiven him, and I probably never will, it would be a waste of my time, and my strength in dealing with this a**hole

Answer 3

I had the hardest time forgiving myself of all people, for having an abortion many years ago. That is my only regret in life. I have 2 beautiful daughters but someone is still missing. I have forgiven myself because I know that God has, too. After that, I had a hard time forgiving my uncle (similar in age to me) for cheating on his wife with the same woman that my ex boyfriend was cheating with (and she was married too ~ true story, I promise)... I've since left all those people in the past and moved on with forgiveness. Great question.

Answer 4

How about cheating, lieing, betrayal, disrespect, molestation, abuse, rape, these are all things that are hard to forgive. I still have issues that revolve around most of them. Strength comes out of every hardship in life. Still wanting to go that mile makes you all the stronger. Don't let life way you down with unforgivness.

Answer 5

My aunt taking back my car, come to think of it, I really haven't forgiven her for it. I was so excited when she said just get the car out my driveway, I don't need it don't worry about paying me. That was suppose to be my first car, and one day her daughter came back totally out of the blue, and then she said she wanted the car back, when my dad went over to her house to drop off something else, she said I need the car back... when my dad said that taking back the car would break my heart he left, he went back over there a couple of days later, to pay her back for the money he borrowed, and reminded him that he has to bring the car back, again telling her that it would break my heart, she told him "I already bought the sticker" I cried and then got over realizing that there will be other cars...

It will take a long time, if at all to forgiver her.

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Answer 6

Hmm, good question but the bottomline we still have to. often than not, the problem really lies with us. until this root is rectified, its going to be a very vicious cycle. tell tale signs are negative impact on mental, physchological and physical aspect.

Answer 7

My father told me that he hated me and would never ever love me again. He left the house for about two days and then came back. It was so weird to see him sitting at the table every morning. He blamed me for everything that has ever happened to him. We didn't talk forever until finally one day i decided that this is my father and i want him to be a part of my life. My father and I are now closer than ever. :) It was very very hard to get to this point though.

Answer 8

My father for hurting my mother and destroying my family when I was a child. It has later destoyed my life by the time that I was a teenager because after my father left, we'd had to move from Chicago to Hillbilly Q.C.A. because it was cheaper and safer for a single mother to raise three children. I'm now almost 30 and I'm STILL stuck in Hillbilly Iowa...and miserable. There's no way out!!! Had my father treated my mother with respect, I'd still be in Chicago with a better life!!!!! I finally had to come in terms with my father just before he died 5 years ago.

Answer 9

Absolute betrayal by my Mother

Answer 10

false accusation
a woman accused me of stealing in a wedding, in the presence of my family,relatives and hundreds of people. i felt really hurt , but she was as well when she found out she was wrong, she apologized and i forgave her.
Nice question!