2007-07-18 23:28:42 · 27 answers · asked by sggam 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I'd rather have 2 people get hurt in the process than 4.
If the married man is in love with someone else and its not the wife, the wife has to be told. Whether or not they settle their differences its really up to them.
When 3rd party is brought in, worst still if the 3rd party is married or has her own family, even more people are caught in between.
You don't really want to be the homewrecker in any case. Its just too big of a lose lose situation.
2007-07-18 23:41:54 · answer #1 · answered by experimentgw 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you was in love with your wife would you like a guy to tell your wife he,s in love with her ? I think you need a little respect . With all the woman out there looking for a man why are you looking at another mans wife . Just because you didn't handle your life correctly doesn't mean you have to screw up another couples life . You may be gay . Maybe the thought of her being with her husband turns you on . You should be a man and tell her husband your feelings don't hide behind her skirt
2007-07-19 00:06:04 · answer #2 · answered by dad 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No and I hope the happily married woman b e a t s the **** out of the married man for being stupid enough to try and break her marriage up.
2007-07-18 23:34:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems to me you want a hot fling - BUT - this can become obsessive and addictive. I would not even tell my wife about this - if she ever knew how you felt you would be thrown out. I cannot condone this for a married man. Believe me, people have a tendency to get caught !!! In addition there are all kinds of sexually transmitted diseases out there- it does not matter how "clean" the person looks. My advice is a resounding NO. Surf the web in private and masturbate if you must. But dont go beyond that while you are still married. If I were you Id get that "love of your life", sit her at the end of bed, get down on your knees and lick her you-know-what clean as much as she can stand it !!!
2016-05-17 08:20:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG! Get a hold of yourself if you are this man! First of all, the bible calls this...I think adultery...and it's a marriage crime!! I'm sure you don't give a darn..(there are children watching)
but this is exactly what David did in the Bible, and look what happened to that great king of power. Killed her husband, so that he could have her...then later marry her! DONT DONT DONT be a gold digger. I feel sorry for you wife if she married someone as lowlife as you, and doesn't know right from wrong! You're asking a question like "okay I don't like this person I just met...should I kill them?"
2007-07-18 23:51:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First are you sure it is love and not lust?? Second, if she is happily married what is the point? You aren't going to get anywhere with her and by telling her that you will most likely drive her to stay far far away from you.....however, her husband might want a word with you. Happily married women talk about everything to their husbands.
2007-07-19 00:42:13 · answer #6 · answered by swtlilblonde31 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you're happily married than you don't fall in love with someone else. if i was that other happily woman i would slap you in the face.
i'm very sorry for your wife, she probably thinks she's got a great husband............ and you get kicked by the happily married husband (when your happily married you share everything with eachother also when people tell they love you)
2007-07-19 00:48:30 · answer #7 · answered by Sylvie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, maybe you don't love your wife as much as you thought you did. So maybe you should rethink that first and keep the thoughts about the married woman to yourself because once you say something things will never be the same when you face her.
2007-07-19 01:42:24 · answer #8 · answered by Kristee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, because it's adultery. Adultery is not just physical, like sex, but it can also be mental, such as looking at another person's spouse with affection or lust. You chose the person you are married to for a reason, probably love. So it's lust you are feeling towards the other woman. Adultery!
2007-07-18 23:47:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it is not okay at all. You have chosen to be in a partnership with your wife. You need to honour that commitment by giving her your emotions, loyalty and communication.
If you are not able to be loyal to your wife you need to examine why and if need be end the marriage. Only at that time is it appropriate to turn elsewhere.
2007-07-19 00:18:27 · answer #10 · answered by Rebecca W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋