Do you think it's better to look for love, or let it find you?

Answer 1

Let it find you. If you are actively looking you probably won't find true love. The reason being is you throw up barriers in your mind. You think I want this that and the other in the person that I want to be in love with. By placing these barriers you may be excluding the man/woman of your dreams. I am not saying that it is not good to know what you are looking for in a relationship what I am saying is don't set them in stone. Someone could be your complete opposite and you could fall madly in love while someone who is exactly like you could be your worst enemy. My Grandpa always said that in a relationship you need a kite and a rock. The rock is the person who keeps the kite grounded. The kite is the person who shows the rock how to enjoy life. Good luck finding your kite or rock

Answer 2

Hi there,

My honest opinion is "wait for love to find you"

For if you don't you will go through life seeking to fit people on like you will fit a pair of shoes.

It does not work like that way for when you open yourselves to look for somebody out there, you will just end up being disappointed.

The biggest driving force that will encourage you to look for somebody instead of waiting until the best choose you, is loneliness.

So the best advise that I can give you is to get yourself some friend and visit with them, and one day when you least expect it, that person will come and sit on you shoulder like a butterfly and you know what, that is when the best has picked you.
Take care
Incognito

Answer 3

Tricky for me, cuz If i late it find me then it might never come, but if I look for it I might end up with the wrong one cuz there are some smooth talkers out there that convinces u. If I had to choose I would say Let if find u, even if it takes the rest of ur life it will come in the right time.

Answer 4

I believe that the best way to fall really in love is when you let love find you! You should let yourself free and its sure that you will find true love! When you look for something you become selfish and you want everything for you! And when you look for real love you wont find it! So, let yourself free and when you meet love express your feelings and dont pressure them! Good luck!

Answer 5

Let it find you. Looking for it makes you look, and eventually feel, desperate. These are the types of people who end up in a relationship just to be in one, not because they genuinely care about the other person.

Answer 6

I've tried both. When I searched I found love but it was not a very good relationship but when Iove looked for me I never was more in love in my entire life. But in truth I guess we were always looking for each other but it took twenty years until we found each other and twenty two years to meet with the other woman. They didn't work out because we were on two different paths if you will, but I never regret finding those two woman and they finding me. They were like two lights that lit up my life and I did theirs. Together the world shined alot brighter when we found each other.

Answer 7

I think it's better to let love find you..
When you look for love, often it could just be mistaken for infatuation...not love...
If you look for love and fail to find it, eventually you'll be disappointed and feel like giving up..
Love is not to be found..
You don't look for love..
When love has bloomed at the right time, it will come to you..
And it will come when you least expect it..

Answer 8

When I found my future wife (yes we are stil together, happily, wink wink) I had all but given up the search for love. So I say let love find you, it will be more special when you just happen on each other rather than look for it.

Answer 9

I truly believe that looking for love you will only find players. Let it find you. It will come when it is meant to be.

Answer 10

Better to let it find you. If you look too hard you might make it into something it's not.