Has anyone or anything you've ever cared about died? How did you feel about it? What happened?

Answer 1

yes my younger sister just comitted suicide a couple of years ago, how did i feel about it? well i tried to join her but i ended up by getting my stomach pumped at least twice, it may sound stupid, but we were so close we even had a "pact" that even if one of us die, they other one would soon join that one, i love her so much and i cant seem to get my life on track every since, she left 2 small children and i dread the day that i have to tell them there beautiful young mother left by choice, if you can see my picture im the blonde and she's the one to the far right, her name is jennifer if you would kindly say a prayer for her

Answer 2

I have had many people die in my life. Both of my parents have died. On these occasions I felt lonely, lost and was left floundering. I have had a niece who died just before her 2nd birthday. On this occasion, I felt devastated, and wondered how I would ever get through the days ahead and also couldn't stop thinking about the heartache her parents were going through. I also had a friend who's 2 little girls died, one was 18 months old and the other had just celebrated her 4th birthday. (These 2 little girls died at different times). The first thing I felt was numbness, then the whys and wherefores came into play, then the absolute agony of knowing that I'll never ever be able to see or talk and play with them again. Then came the realisation of how the parents will ever cope with the loss. I still shed tears when I think about them all. There is never ever a day that goes by when I don't have sad feelings for my losses, along with the feelings I share with the parents. I hope no-one has to ever go through with what my friends and family have had to cope with. I think when a child dies it has the most devastating effect on everyone connected with that child.

Answer 3

A Reason, a Season, or a Lifetime

People come into your life for a reason, a season, or a lifetime.
When you figure out which one it is,
You will know what to do for each person.
When someone is in your life for a Reason . . .
It is usually to meet a need you have expressed.
They have come to assist you through a difficulty,
To provide you with guidance and support,
To aid you physically, emotionally, or spiritually.
They may seem like a godsend, and they are!
They are there for the reason you need them to be.
Then, without any wrong doing on your part, or at an inconvenient time,
This person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.
Sometimes they die.
Sometimes they walk away.
Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.
What we must realise is that our need has been met,
Our desire fulfilled, their work is done.
The prayer you sent up has been answered.
And now it is time to move on.
When people come into your life for a Season. . .
Because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.
They bring you an experience of peace, or make you laugh.
They may teach you something you have never done.
They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.
Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season.
Lifetime relationships teach you lifetime lessons;
Things you must build upon in order
To have a solid emotional foundation.
Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person,
And put what you have learned
To use in all other relationships and areas of your life.
It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.

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I hope you enjoyed the message today.
Just as everything happens for a reason,
Everyone is part of your life for a reason!

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Until later, Make it a Great Life!

Love & Blessings
Milly

Answer 4

My dad died when I was 9 and the only one home. At the time it didn't effect too much emotionally - not that I was trying to ignore what happened, but I think I was just trying to be brave for my mum's sake. But as I got older and turned about 13 I started having problems and had a break down where I ended up seeing a shrink but it really didn't help cause I didn't want the help at that stage. A few years later when I was about 15 or 16 I went through deep depression stages and had serious thoughts of suicide cause I was suddenly blaming myself for my dad's death, saying things like "i was the only one home I should have done something". I never tried to commit suicide thank-fully but I did end up having another break down when I was 22 and got more help.
Its never easy, and the days do hurt and are hard BUT I don't blame myself anymore. But I have never stopped missing and loving my dad.
To those who haven't suffered any losses, you are luckier than you could ever know and make the most of each day with those you love cause you never know when you could lose someone ya love.

I agree with something that "Mickey B" said, about death being a time to rejoice and not be sad. My brother has said how when he dies, he doesn't want a funeral or people to be sad, just bury him in a cardboard box but spend the money on a bar tab for all his friends to sit around and talk about the good times, not to be sad.

Answer 5

Both family members and pets have I lost over the years. And grief is a hard, long process. It goes and forth through stages of anger and sadness and guilt.... you never "get over" the death of someone. You just learn how to lessen the pain to move on with your own life. You learn that you can't stop living yourself because someone you love has died. I cried a lot... except at the wake and funeral... I laughed a lot, as other family members related tales and we had this bittersweet family reunion. In that way, death is not sad, but a time for rejoicing. It is always strange. They say that "time heals all wounds", and in the matter of death, it is very, very true.

Answer 6

you comprehend what? instead of combating the vacancy, include it. interior the long shot, you will finally end up as a surprisingly knowledgeable lady. with or and not employing a guy. Suppress any emotions you do no longer choose or are ineffective frequently. on the grounds that do no longer supply a **** approximately what human beings think of of you.. what's combating you ?! discover your interest. something in any respect that would seize your interest, delight in and hit upon it. individually, i like to entice, and study. I be taught as lots expertise as i'm able to take in. I rather have been in that place the place my senses are in simple terms so numb, as though i'm residing a dream. I nonetheless discover myself in that concern. yet no rely how lots funds I make, what number acquaintances I rather have [in common terms people who're rather worth it], or what concern i'm in, i comprehend that there is going to be a day after today and an afternoon after that. I in common terms greater often than not think of of useful innovations. I rather have potential, which i've got stronger by the years. And in common terms care approximately my own wellbeing. It did no longer wreck me. i myself think of stronger of myself from those stories. there is not any longer something incorrect with you. you're possibly searching for something greater in existence than the place you're maximum suitable now. i've got had a great style of undesirable stories, yet in opposition , i've got had rather solid ones too. look deep in your self earlier you are attempting in seek for exterior components. Or attempt to discover your pursuits slightly greater. [BTW, try analyzing horror, or my own popular, Edgar Allan Poe] And maximum heavily, don't be embarrassed approximately regardless of you may discover on your journey. i'm no longer, and neither do you ought to. ~ maximum suitable of success, youthful grass hopper.

Answer 7

Yes i was dead clinically.l My spirit went out of my body and floating when I was in my death bed in the ICU in 1979. My soul or spirit (i do not know) was longing for something to cling on. The sound was immediately off then. when i look down I found my body on the bed. I heard the sound of foot steps. when I look to that side, two people carrying Bible in their hands and entered into the ICU. They then went to the side of the ward and touched the wall. The wall was opened and a white light was coming out that opening. They went inside . there was a very bright light and there was a mouth-like opening. two people read from the Bible and prayed. they then asked to bring in my body. after my body was put on a table there, they prayed again and read some versus from Bible. then they applied a green color ointment on my stomach. Immediately my spirit reentered into my body. actually I was seeing with my own eyes and i was not able to see the bright light with my flesh eye. they said i was healed and i can go. when I opened my eye i was in the ICU bed. Within 10 days I was discharged from the hospital.

Answer 8

When loss or death occurs, sadness crosses ones mind, this keeps happening to me and I am left sad, I pray and try to look on the bright side of life, sometimes I feel both lonely and courageous, then I know that where there is life there is a way.

Answer 9

I lost my younger brother to suicide. He was 22 at the time and it was 10 years ago on the 17th July. I was sooooo pissed off and pained that he didn't speak out....that he didnt at least give me the opportunity to help him. He could be a negative sort of guy and aside from his gloomy outlook on life (which i didnt realise at the time was a sign because of how he had been for so long) there was no way for me to know that he didnt want to live anymore. If he had said 'Val...im in pain..i want to die...please help me' I would have tried my best for him. I love him and i miss him but i sort of hate him too sometimes.

Answer 10

Yes, I lost my father, brother, two nephews, as well as aunts, uncles, grandparents, friends.
Death is a part of life and will happen to us all- we can only prepare for it by living as full and good a life as possible.
Do I miss my dead relatives? Oh yes, but in a way they are still with me- we never forget those we have loved!