How do you become someone who is not made fun of?

Question

im one of those people that gets picked on constantly and made fun of and its caused a great deal of pain and very low self esteem (i dont have confidence for many many reasons but im not going to get in to it) i was made fun of a lot since the age of 4 or 5 by my older brother and sister who would say awful and hurtful things which i kind of think messed me up for life because by the time i was ready to go to school i already had no confidence and people picked on me..its hard when ur little to not be sensitive to the things my siblings would say cuz i mean how could you not be when ur 4? but anyway i've always been made fun of and had rude things said to me constantly even by people that are my friends...its ruined my life because i feel like i cant trust anyone and i just dont know how to not be an easy target since i obviously am one

Answer 1

It is not that you can become a person that is never made fun of ,, It is that you become a person that will NOT let it bother you when you are made fun of.

we are all made fun at one time or another in our lives. It is just how we deal with it that make us better people..

Answer 2

Deat Molly,

Your question is one that has plauged all of mankind in some way. The sad thing is it has affected you this way. Here's the truth your pain is real and anyone who denies it is a fool. I have felt the pain of siblings as well, I understand how confusing this can be not to mention the pain associated with the abondenment of your self worth. The question is a great question but I feel the answer is yours to answer in your own way of life unfolded. How we live our lives often affects the way we feel about ourselves, chose better choices for your self. The wisest suggestion I would give is seek those that have compassion for you and value your love, friendship. Your worth is from God, He knows the reason for your existence and it is not so others to pick on you and make you the brunt of any jokes. Trust in yourself that you will someday stand in a position to offer a consoling heart to someone who finds themselves going through what you have gone though. Remember that when you chose to live worthy of loving those who are lost themselves will want to keep you downm trust the Lord. People like you give the earth meaning, Your heart is full. I find that when mine is full, I empty it to God. There is a song that someone once gave me from Metallica - Nothing Else Matters. Get the lyrics perhaps seekalyric.com. Take Care God Bless

Answer 3

I know this sounds bad, but it worked for me. I was picked on most of my life until around 10th grade in highschool. One guy just wouldn't stop, even when the teachers took action, and even when he knew he was going too far. I just went over the edge and beat the living crap out of him. His friends beat me up as soon as they realized I had actually hurt the guy, but they never messed with me again. After that, I guess my attitude changed, I couldn't tell anything had changed, but I guess everyone else noticed something, because no one ever bothered me again, no matter where I went. I'm actually a very sensitive person myself, and I'll admit that it's easy to hurt my feelings, but I'm proud of it.

Answer 4

Everyone is made fun of because everyone is different. I get made fun of because I'm very curvy (big butt, small waist, big boobs) and people call me fat a lot, even though I'm not fat. I'm an Atheist Witch, so I get made fun of by Atheists AND Pagans. I also have an acne problem and get made fun of for that.

Insecure people can and WILL find something about you to make fun of, even if you are perfect, they will still find something. It's not you that has the problem. It's them. They're insecure about themselves, so they have to focus on you and try to make you feel embarrassed and ashamed like they are.

Don't give them the satisfaction. Be happy and proud of who you are.

Answer 5

If someone picks on you for something, you need to pick on them back. An unfortunate course of action, but believe me, it's the ONLY thing to do that will yield any results.

"Ha ha! Look at stupid Molly who is doing/wearing/saying something stupid!!"

At that point, you need to rip on something that THEY are doing/wearing/saying and let them have it good. Once you do this, they will either see that you have self-esteem and think you're cool, or they'll throw a punch at you. If the second case happens, you need to go absolutely APE-SH|T on them to make the statement that you are NOT going to be pushed around by anyone!

Answer 6

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Answer 7

dont let it bother you and (i know its not the best advise) but try to burn them back...like if they call you a loser tell them to either suck ur ballz or f*ck you haha i know im not the greatest person to get advise from, but i used to be made fun of a few years ago and now im like friends with everyone in my school because i wouldnt take their sh*t anymore...and neither should you


oh and btw, i dont suggest the "join the fun and make fun of urself too," cuz honestly i think it makes you look like even more of a loser, no offence

=)hope i helped

Answer 8

I know this is one of those things that seems "easier to say than do," but I myself have done it:

1. Don't let it show that easing bothers you, and
2. join in the fun. make fun of yourself, and
3. dish it back in a way that shows you're joining the fun, not lashing out.

Tes, this is a hard point to reach, but ONLY once they do not perceive you as an easy mark will they lay off of you.

Seriously.

I've been there, too.

You can do it!

Answer 9

walk with an air of confidence, talk with confidence. instead of wallowing into depression and self pity, read books. be informed. dont let these rude people ruin your life, sweetie.

Answer 10

The easiest way to get people to stop bugging you is to agree with them .

If they call you fat, you say : Yep, I am as fat as a cow. .

If they call you ugly, you reply: I don't know of any one as ugly as me, is there some kind of award I can win ?.

After a while, they will quit because their fun was getting under your skin .