My boyfriend and I were riding in the back seat and I was really tired. I could not find any comfortable position to fall asleep so I just laid my head in his lap.It was comfortable for the both of us and I fell asleep and nothing happened at all. Is this wrong to do (I'm 16) or am I just acting strange?
2007-07-18 16:56:02 · 40 answers · asked by MaculaMaster 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
My parents were driving.
2007-07-18 17:01:17 · update #1
It's not wrong but to other people it will look wrong. Society is very perverted nowadays so it's best if you don't do anything that looks even the slightest suggestive.
2007-07-18 17:00:52 · answer #1 · answered by Jan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong at all. You were both comfortable with it so totally OK. Your parents may see a problem if you do this(head near his private area) and think you may be "too familiar" with the area for their comfort(ie:you must be messing around with eachother so you have no problem having your face there) but I see no problem with it. I think its nice to be close to the one you care for. Its part of life that you will come in contact with the opposite sex at some point! And you are 16...it's not like you are laying on some guys lap at the age of 10 or 11 or something! :O) no worries!
2007-07-18 17:01:23 · answer #2 · answered by Noodle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong with that. You said you didn't do anything so it's perfectly fine. Think of it this way, if he had pillow on his lap then you wouldn't think twice about laying your head on his lap. Don't worry about it. And congratulations on finding a comfortable way to sleep in the back seat! That's practically impossible!
2007-07-18 17:01:11 · answer #3 · answered by Michelle S 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds harmless, but that is really a tantalizing position for the boy.
I'm not being a prude, just very honest and objective.
There is little chance that he wasn't aroused by this.
It's a step on the road to sexual relations. In theory, no it is not horribly wrong, but don't be naive about the significance of it.
2007-07-18 17:03:29 · answer #4 · answered by dustalyn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, not to me; however, you are opening a door for people to gossip about you. If you prefer that people don't talk about you, then you are better off not doing things that might be construed to be inappropriate. The fact that you are asking means that falling asleep on someones lap is in a gray area. I know that if my father or mother were to see me do something like that they would be very upset.
2007-07-18 17:03:21 · answer #5 · answered by teaparty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with that, and taking a nap with your head resting in your boyfriends lap, especially with your parents driving, is not suggestive. It shows trust, both you for your boyfriend, and your parents to you for allowing it.
2007-07-18 18:17:05 · answer #6 · answered by Ayana 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds innocent enough. If it should happen again in the future then just make sure that you are not facing his crotch when you are lying there. That way it doesnt look suggestive and it won't get his imagination going either.
2007-07-18 17:41:53 · answer #7 · answered by M P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously you were comfortable but uncomfortable. Next time, if there'd be a next time...try the shoulder. That way you and he will not feel weird.
2007-07-18 17:01:18 · answer #8 · answered by oceanpearl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it depends im a male and men constantly talk about sex if he is use to having a girlfriend then its ok he will know how to react knowing that you not trying to do anything sexual to him so if thats the case then its ok and just a reminder it also depends on what type of person you are
2007-07-18 17:01:00 · answer #9 · answered by paypastacks 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
in my opinion, it might have been a little startling for him, because he might not have known what you were instigating, if you catch my drift.. it might not LOOK like the best thing, your intentions might come off differently than you expected.
but i think its fine. i would do that. if he didnt get all weird about it, hes probably cool with it.
2007-07-18 16:59:58 · answer #10 · answered by linseyy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋