I'm an evil, cold, cruel and heartless man... How can I change my way?
2007-07-18 16:31:43 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Well, admission is the first step, good on you! Positive thinking is definitely a good start!
2007-07-18 16:35:53 · answer #1 · answered by clarebare1975 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Define evil? For that matter, define what you mean by cold, cruel and heartless?
Why do you want to change? If you are cold, cruel and heartless to those who deserve it, it's a good thing. DON’T CHANGE!
DO NOT look to Jesus, god, Allah or any other deity. These beings are lies and a waste of your time, energy and life. There is no god or Allah, Jesus was just a man and the teachings of these mythologies are laden with lies, poor morality, unrealistic beliefs and stupidity.
If you are interested in a deeper understanding of reality, read and study Friedrich Nietzsche, Richard Dawkins, Charles Bradlaugh, Lao Tzu and learn what you can of Social Darwinism and Philosophical Taoism, (NOT RELIGIOUS Taoism!!!) Then apply these principals to life. If you have questions, ASK!
This to avoid: ignorance*, indolence**, gluttony+, bigotry++ and cowardice.# {See notes below} For these are the core of true evil. (As a note, I would like to point out, the belief in a creator god is foolish and ignorant and following the way of fools and ignorance is a waste of life. Look towards reality for answers, not the fiction of mythology.
I hope this helps.
2007-07-19 13:19:45 · answer #2 · answered by deknowsit 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are what you say you are then you probably are a psychopath also known as a sociopath also known as an anti-personality type and it is impossible for you to really change. You can change your way of outward behavior but you'll always be the same evil, cold and heartless person inwardly no matter what you try or what others tell you.
2007-07-18 23:39:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must not be that evil if you want to change.
Start small, by doing something nice for someone youve wronged in the past. Start thinking in terms of how small you actually are in this universe, and how much you should work WITH it not against it.
Good Luck
P.S. Make sure your your newfound kindness extends to animals too!
2007-07-18 23:37:35 · answer #4 · answered by Lori l 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
WANT to change. That's the first step, nothing can come before that. Besides, evil is a perception the same as goodness is. If you believe yourself to be evil, than to you, you are evil. If someone believes you to be good, than to them you are good. There is no absolute truth in that regard. Similarly, evil is necessary for good to exist.
2007-07-18 23:43:52 · answer #5 · answered by Selene 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't change yourself. But if you open your heart to Jesus Christ right now and ask him to be your lord and savior, he'll start a lifelong process of changing you. His Spirit will do the changing inside of you. All you'll need to do is love God.
Do this now (you don't even need to go to a church) and you'll see what I mean. If you need privacy first, find it.
Worked for me (or rather, is working for me).
2007-07-18 23:38:43 · answer #6 · answered by Michael 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to want to change. simple as that. & try to think more positively, that way it's easier to spread the joy and be a little warmer ;-).
Good Luck. Hugs!
2007-07-19 00:22:13 · answer #7 · answered by dreamingfairytales 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You might just need time off from people. I suggest the Cast Away treatment.
2007-07-19 05:17:08 · answer #8 · answered by ctcpl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can try really really really hard to not be that...or you could just recieve the Lord.
2007-07-18 23:35:38 · answer #9 · answered by Girly-Girl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is the only way !!!
http://www.godssimpleplan.org/gsps-english.html
2007-07-18 23:37:59 · answer #10 · answered by rapturefuture 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋