what is the best way to make oppressive bullies stop calling people names?

Answer 1

What age groups are we discussing here?
I ignore bullies; treat them as if they simply do not exist. Shun them. Believe me, before you know it they will be a distant memory that you won't even recall if someone mentions their name.

Why allow creeps like that to affect your life in any way. They aren't worth it.

Answer 2

God Bless you...

Having been somewhat of a bully once upon a time...I think the thing that worked the best on me was when I was picking on my sister, and she just looked up at me through her tears and said "Todd, I love you even when you hurt me." That took all the fight out of me. Maybe that will work for you.

I do know that all these people that are telling you to fight fire with fire are wrong--unless you have the strength to put a major beat down on this bully. I know that when people used to fight back with me, that only made me bolder, 'cause I thought that they were into the game. Only when my sister confronted me the way she did, did I realize what I was really doing.

Bullies are that way because they don't feel legitimized unless they can affect other people in a negative way. So you have a choice--you can either play their game, and unless you are stronger mentally or physically than they are, you will lose; or you can either walk away or confront their weakness which is emotion. Ask them how they feel when they are being a bully. Tell them you love them. Or walk away. But don't fight back.

Answer 3

Bully them back. However, in anger, we are often left in the position of creating an endless stream of escalation. Most of the world's conflict is based on retaliation or revenge for perceived wrong doing.

We have no control over what others say or do to us. "Oppressive bullies" is labeling though, so I would suggest that the process has already begun.

1. Walk away. they aren't worth the time.

2. Find others who will treat you in a dignified and respectful way.

3. If someone insults, you say "thank you for your criticism" and walk away.

4. If someone is sarcastic, you can say "I am sorry that I offended you in some way" and walk way.

5. If someone isn't willing to discuss an interpersonal issue with you, they are no longer worth your energy to attempt a civilized relationship.

6. Recognize toxicity and do what you can to stay clear of it.

Answer 4

why do human beings bully and make contact with human beings names?by using fact their no longer happy with themselves. ok i'm in intense college human beings call me names and shop doing it i attempt to ignore approximately it in spite of the undeniable fact that it wont help so if i tell a concept or somebody they'll tell them to offer up yet whilst there long gone they shop making relaxing of me what could i do? do no longer take offense to it,thats what they're searching for,chuckle it of or tell them your sorry they experience that way ,undergo in strategies it particularly is quite their problem.If all else fails drop kick them.{basically Kidding,or am I ,been there experienced this}

Answer 5

Start with their parents teaching them respect and manners when they are younger. By the time they are in upper school they have their personalities set, although they can change if they want to.
Growing up I just tried to avoid them like the plague. They're jerks and nothing I could say was going to stop them.

Answer 6

Try ignoring them. It'll take more than one or two tries, but after a while they'll look for someone they *can* bully -- someone who plays by the rules of their game (meaning someone who reacts by getting angry).

Don't let bullies -- or anyone -- push your buttons. Except maybe your parents; that's their job :-)

Answer 7

When they call you a name, answer with a name for them that they will not like. I called a short stocky guy Stubby, and he soon stopped calling me a name.

Answer 8

Stop hanging around losers...

It's usually a fuction of the un-educated, insecure, unlicked cubs of society.

Answer 9

can't be done. unfortunately the only real way to deal with bullies is to beat their a## until they leave you alone and even that might not work.

Answer 10

I have to agree with the others, if you stand up to them, they are usually pretty wimpy and will crawl away with their tail between their legs. Unfortunately, they may only understand pain, so you have to answer them with pain, so they will go away.