i just got a call from a guy in my future class pressuring me to have sex with him. i don't love him, much less like him at ALL. i'm a virgin and i plan to stay one until i'm married. i'm so scared of him raping me if i say no. in the past he's pressed up against me during a school dance that i was at with my boyfriend at that time. i told principal and he was expelled. i'm so freaked out right now. i'm only 14 and going into high school. what should i do?
2007-07-18 13:55:44 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
get a restraining order... or pay someone to "take him for a ride"
2007-07-18 13:59:55 · answer #1 · answered by Aggin Tad 3 · 5⤊ 6⤋
Stay away from him, make sure an adult knows about this phone call and if you want to remain a virgin till you are married more power to you. Dont let any one tell you or try to force you other wise. Make sure to keep alert about your surroundings and if you are this worried about it at school make sure the principal knows. If not a Temporary restraining order would be you best bet. Hope this helps
2007-07-18 14:01:34 · answer #2 · answered by Tina V 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell any and all adults you trust, including your parents!!! They should notify the police about this and possibly getting a restraining order agains the young man. This is a court order requiring him to not contact you in any way (phone, email, text message, etc. and to remain at least a certain distance from you at all times or he can go to jail. The guy sounds like a total ***.
2007-07-18 14:00:54 · answer #3 · answered by knittinmama 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should tell your parents and call the police. I don't believe anyone is allowed to harass you whether in person or over the phone. Then you get a restraining order! Lock your doors and if you see him in school take an opposite route from where he is to get to class.
2007-07-18 14:06:11 · answer #4 · answered by rachel_ohanlon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definetly report it to the police, how did he get your number? Anyways, change the number and tell your parents, they might help you out by getting an alarm system, some mace for you, a dog..you know. This guy is scary and those threats should not be taken lightly.
Gool Luck!!
2007-07-18 14:12:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your parents. Have them contact his parents. Contact the police. Get a restraining order. Your too young to have that type of pressure. Get away from him and get some help from someone.
2007-07-18 14:01:15 · answer #6 · answered by kelly-il 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your parents, see if the school can do something about this
if not the police if it escalates. If i were you i would switch to another school, it might be a pain to do so, but its worth being safe and not getting raped
2007-07-18 14:01:52 · answer #7 · answered by wklj 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell your parents about the phone call. You can also talk to your guidance counselor at school and they can try to make sure that he is not in any of your classes. You should not have to deal with this type of harassment at any age!!
2007-07-18 14:00:44 · answer #8 · answered by Mrs Florek 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if i were you dont go near him and i you have to get a restraining order ... men are pigs some of them i was talking to this guy when i was in high school , and next thing i know he was trying to rap me and my parents didnt do anything . welli hope your parent arent like mine well good luck need anything e-mail me at dirtbikerchick_dirtbikerdude@yahoo.com
2007-07-18 14:15:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If yo think he is going to come to your house, call the police - get a restraining order. Have your parents help you.
2007-07-18 14:00:01 · answer #10 · answered by sc1120 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Block his number and all unknown calls. Tell an adult now and see if the school can do any thing about him.
2007-07-18 14:04:03 · answer #11 · answered by Sharlette C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋