i ned help on the this one badly?

Question

well since my dad is going to leave me the youngest son his house what should i do w/ my 19 yr old sister should i kick her out should i let her stay w/ my own rules. my sisters is one of those party crazy girls im in the progress of becoming a police officer i dont want her coming home waking up my wife and kids help!

Answer 1

So is ur Dad dead???? Maybe sell it and half the money with your sister. your Dad should leave the house half/half. She is your blood always and in time she will settle down and maybe not want to live with you.....

Answer 2

This is the reason I supported my family member about selling the house. If I had it, all the family would want to come and live off me as I am the responsible mature one. Once you take that house over, you are going to run into problems that you don't want. I don't know how you can deal with telling your sister to buzz off. I couldn't have done that, and am so glad that I don't have to. Also, if dad sells the house, he can do better by you if he gives you money instead. Also, don't forget that dad may be going nowhere soon, and just the fact that you say you accept, puts you forever in a position to help dad when he needs it. Huge responsibility so think carefully!

Answer 3

You can charge her rent and assure her that you will be like any other landlord. If her rent is not paid she will be evicted. Spell it all out ( including the rules ) in the lease agreement and have her, you, and your wife sign it. Make copies and give her a copy and keep a copy. When she gets tired of living by the rules that she agreed to and tired of paying her way at your house she will be more encouraged to find her own place to live with her own rules. This will help to teach her responsibility also. Good Luck

Answer 4

Make her go to family counseling, set the rules and if she doesn't follow them you have to make her leave and learn to take care of herself. Family counseling might help her see that bad behavior affects other people in the house and the universe does not revolve around her. You have to think of your own children and your marriage first. She is your sister, however and I think you should give her a chance. You should also give her a deadline to have a job, or get into school, save some money and get her own apartment...then stick to it! Are you planning to share with her what your father left you in your own will, should anything happen to you?

Answer 5

I would give her the chance to clean up her act. If its your house you set the standards and rules. If she breaks them then thats disrespectful and how would she fill if you were in her house disrespecting her. *Wow* a police officer that parties does she know what kind of standards she should be trying to set for society as wanting to become a police officer. She sounds like she is still immiture and she needs so wake up quick or she could lose her career!

Answer 6

Dude: The first thing that you need to do is make sure that your father puts it in writing so that your little sister cannot contest anything in court in the future. The second thing that you need to do is ask your sister to move out within thirty days after she finishes her academy training. You need to be specific, yet polite in dealing with your family. After all, she is still your sister.
Cheers,
Mr. M on "i ned help."

Answer 7

If your dad is leaving you the house and nothing for your sis, then at least show some brotherly love and let her stay with you.

Answer 8

is he leaving you the house b/c he's dying? i'm sure he'd provide for your sister as well but if he doesn't provide for her, let her stay til she can get a place of her own with your rules. just don't be to anal. if he isn't dying and your sis lives with him, isn't she moving with him?

Answer 9

Try it with your rules first. If that does not work kick her out. She is an adult now, time to act like it.