And i have been talking to him on yahoo messanger and he said why would he want to see me and im very upset abou this what should i do?
2007-07-18 12:00:16 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
you poor thing I hadent seen my mother Since i was two months old and I had to meet her to get the forms for my passport signed and she told me to F Off and get away from her door and we had to go to court She even got her boyfriend to come to the door and push me away. So I learned that somethings are better left untouched
I hope works out for you xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
2007-07-18 12:05:20 · answer #1 · answered by Danny Eire 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I havent seen my father since I was 5, except in court hearings. He lived down the street from my sister and I for 9 years, and never saw us one time. Some Men are just not ment to be fathers. I know it hurts but it sounds like your father is one of those guys too. I wonder if your dad and my dad are friends? The only thing I can say is try to move on without him, you will be much better off if you beleive he is the one messing up. Remember that always, its not your fault. If you ever need someone to talk to about this feel free to e-mail me anytime. Good Luck!
2007-07-18 12:06:20 · answer #2 · answered by atom.lile 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I will assume given you are chatting with your Dad via IM, you want some level of relationship with him. Perhaps this is where your comfort remains and you are certainly not under any obligation to take it further, ie: face to face contact.
However, you need to be honest with your Dad so he is not under the wrong impression you want more than your current set up. Be direct as anything else may come back and bite you on the butt one day. If your Dad become insistent about seeing you face to face, ask him to respect your feelings and not to pursue the issue again.
I think it's great you are at least chatting with your Dad and I hope you enjoy the time you spend with him this way.
2007-07-18 12:08:40 · answer #3 · answered by LiverGirl98 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
My advice is forget him, as if you were my daughter i would move heaven and earth to see you he should count his blessings he has a caring daughter, i would never ever let my daughters down, all the very best to you
2007-07-22 01:49:45 · answer #4 · answered by colin872966 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See Greg N's response.
2007-07-18 15:27:14 · answer #5 · answered by DeadLastinBetterptsoftheUniverse 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he actually asked why would he want to see you, then he isn't worthy of your love, it will hurt, but i will bet that you will be better off without someone that could say that to their own child
2007-07-18 12:54:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i am sorry your dad said this to you but i dont think you should do any think it is up to him to see you you have asked it will be his lost in the end good luck
2007-07-21 09:28:39 · answer #7 · answered by shirley v 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a bad parent.Forget him-your better off without him.It's him who's got the problem not you.
2007-07-18 13:44:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
how do u know he is ur dad,he could be any one.
2007-07-19 02:33:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋