Ok...so I'm a very passable transman (female to male transsexual) and my sexual attraction is to girls. However...there's this one guy that I used to work with that I just find absolutely adorable. We tease each other all the time and give each other a lot of s**t. I'm kind of attracted to him, but not in like a sexual way. But I think he'd be fun to kind of cuddle with and hug and laugh with. So,if I'm attracted to him enough to think about cuddling with him, but NOT attracted to him enough to sleep with him, what does that mean?
2007-07-18 10:45:05 · 16 answers · asked by I_color_outside_the_lines 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
It means just that - I cuddle with lots of friends and it means nothing sexually. You just like him and would like to be close to him.
2007-07-18 10:48:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
it means you are a normal person
just about very person at some point will fall for the same or opposite sex
if not fall at least think about doing something
you sound like you are good friends with the guy and thats a good thing to be so maybe thats what you two need to me good friends
that way you have no internal issues with your sexuality with at last him anyway and hopefully a very great friend ship with a great person that may even have hugs in it
if i am wrong though your eyes then maybe there is something more to it and it might be worth checking it out after all
you know what is the right thing to do is and that is to be yourself
2007-07-18 11:54:48 · answer #2 · answered by Zara3 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
It means you have a good friend, and from some of your previous questions, maybe your just lonely so that's why your thinking of cuddling with him. But since your not attracted to him sexually then I say you have nothing to worry about. It doesn't mean anything...just maybe you want some affection.
2007-07-18 10:49:03 · answer #3 · answered by Moxie! 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
That is why I dont get to do cuddling but with that I am close physically(sexually).A girlfriend wouldn't get it if after starting I am cuddling some other ones.
2007-07-20 08:22:26 · answer #4 · answered by Lucy,I'm honry! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it means you may be wanting more than a shag. Dont worry too much, it may jsut be emotions but if the feelings keep up and intensify then you should maybe discuss them with him.....oh and it'd be good to know if he's into boys or girls. Good luck hun
2007-07-18 10:51:33 · answer #5 · answered by pirate prince 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means you like him..North American culture has this big hang up about same sex people touching each other..most other cultures don't have this restriction...in other countries you see men hugging and touching all the time.
2007-07-18 10:59:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if you've heard about the rainbow theory or not but it goes that the spectrum starts with females who are girly girley girley and then goes girley girley then goes girley then girley guy , then guygirly guy then guy ugy then guy guy guy, which simpoly put theres a spectrum you fit in on the border , perhaps he fits in on the border on the other side(ish).
2007-07-18 10:56:46 · answer #7 · answered by darkcloud 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it means that you are both horny, and confused at the same time but if he is straight them don't worry it shouldn't get any worser or deeper than just cuddling.lol take it easy hun.
2007-07-18 10:58:08 · answer #8 · answered by shame on them 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That you are straight but open to affection
2007-07-18 10:55:17 · answer #9 · answered by startrektosnewenterpriselovethem 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means you like him and want to get to him more, see if hes good
2007-07-18 10:48:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋