But she wants to have it with my best friend. He's cool with the idea. It would only be oral between the two of them. Is this weird? What should I do?
2007-07-18 10:42:59 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yeah, it's weird. For one thing, it means she has at least been thinking about giving him head. You might ask her why she needs to have that kind of stimulation. Isn't sex with you enough? You might also has both of them if they have talked about it seperately from you. Maybe they are already having an affair??? THink about it, your "friend" wants to have sex with your wife. And he's talking about it with you!!! Yeah, it's weird...
The thing is, if you do it, things will NEVER be the same between you and your wife, and you and your so called friend. In fact, if you did it, and you and your wife ever broke up, I bet you know where she would go....that's right, to your "friend."
Maybe you should just dump her now and find a normal woman. Yep, she'll run to your "friend" if you do....
2007-07-18 10:52:08 · answer #1 · answered by JustAskin 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
DO NOT DO IT! There is never a good reason to put your marriage through this. Let your wife know that if something is lacking that you two will work on it. People like excitement help her have some but not in this way. Your relationship will never be the same and you will open the door to many other problems
2007-07-18 10:58:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My wife and I do mix-in's and it has kept our marriage going hot & heavy for 18 years now, but I have to say I have seen a lot of marriages break up over threesomes, one of my best friends of over 20 years no longer is married to his wife or talks to me anymore, all because he wanted to join us in a mix-in and right in the middle of the whole thing he gets up and just starts freaking out about me and his ol lady, and walks out and never comes back, we still see his ex but he has never talked to me sense that, make sure this is really what you both want!
2007-07-18 10:51:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
dude the threesome part ca be viewed as normal but she said with your best friend and he says hes ok with it? she has already performed oral on this guy and wants your blessings to do it more often.open your eyes then go punch your EX-FRIEND in the mouth.
2007-07-18 12:37:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Dude if you honestly want your marrige to end go for it!! Life is NOT a porno movie, granted me & my wife love watching it. But we leave it at that, "fantasy" NOT reality. There is way too many variables involved in something like that. But hey your both adults, make your own decision
2007-07-18 10:56:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow! that's is brave of your wife to ask if she could cheat right in front of you and you accepting it like it's part of your marriage vows. I think a three-some is disgusting and it only a matter of time before the end of your marriage comes
2007-07-18 10:58:46 · answer #6 · answered by Bonduesa 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, gee, what part of your marriage vows did you miss? Sure, go ahead. Then get a lawyer. She'll dump you for your best friend. God almighty, I hope you don't have children.
2007-07-18 10:46:46 · answer #7 · answered by wc2ketey 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
if you dont...im suspecting she will without you. this is not good.
I would use all power to convince friend this is not a territory he should go into...
when youre out with your buddy say things like, "man im glad were friends, because we wouldnt hurt each other." or "I think of you as a brother" and then slip in something like, "yeah if you ever sleep with my wife, ill kill you like I would my brother"
2007-07-18 11:04:17 · answer #8 · answered by Mergler 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
DONT ALLOW IT TO HAPPEN. It will ruin your relationship. Threesomes in a relationship never work., for some reason it breaks up the relationship one way or another.
2007-07-18 10:48:02 · answer #9 · answered by JustMe 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Not weird! But a great start to the demise of your marriage. Don't do it....you will be sorry. Been there and divorced because of it.
2007-07-18 10:46:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋