stay in a relationship u have been in for 6 years ..although there are huge problems..and one partner doesnt want to even talk or act like anything is wrong...but u know how to deal with it..even though u are unhappy..or try to develop a new relationship...or just try to be on your own for a awhile?
2007-07-18 09:45:04 · 13 answers · asked by Kimmie B 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Time is funny...no matter the circumstance, good or bad...it keeps ticking. Longevity should not be a reason to stay in a bad relationship with huge problems. It's been 6 yrs and the problems still remain meaning that they are not being rectified but merely swept under the rug..which causes extra lumps and bumps in the relationship. u only live once! why do so unhappily?
2007-07-18 09:54:12 · answer #1 · answered by solomonfever 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're not happy, try being single for a little. Six years is a long commitment and quickly going into the dating scene after might not be good. Find out who you are and what you want. When you do decide to start dating, make a list of the qualities you want in a mate.
2007-07-18 16:59:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't stay in the relationship if I was dissatisfied with it, and saw no way to fix it. For me, the point is not being *in* a relationship, it is being in a *happy* relationship. I don't mind being on my own for a while, although I would ultimately be looking for the right person to be with.
2007-07-18 16:56:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be on my own. Spending six years with someone undoubtedly involved a lot of growth. Take some time to reflect on it, get to know yourself and set up some new standards before heading back out into the dating world.
2007-07-18 16:57:54 · answer #4 · answered by Courtney 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my motto used to be "I would rather be by myself and happy than with someone who was making me miserable". I never kept someone around just to say I had a boyfriend. I went on a lot of dates and met a lot of people that way including my husband. If I had stayed in a relationship that I knew was no good, I may have never met my husband. Good luck!
2007-07-18 16:54:04 · answer #5 · answered by SharShar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would get out if there is nothing positive in the relationship. Why waste more time?
2007-07-18 16:48:46 · answer #6 · answered by misteri 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
On my own... (I am now, and loving it!) After a long - term relationship, it's easy for one to lose touch of themselves... I'm thoroughly enjoying getting to know me again!
2007-07-18 16:48:31 · answer #7 · answered by Wildflower 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay in the rut your in and continue to be unhappy and miserable forever*...... Or do the opposite*...
2007-07-18 19:01:13 · answer #8 · answered by dca2003311@yahoo.com 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would let it go and if it (the relationship) comes back then you know it's meant to be.
2007-07-18 17:24:17 · answer #9 · answered by mrsknowitall 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to start a new relationship.... it takes two to make it work but only one to tear one apart
2007-07-18 16:49:14 · answer #10 · answered by barn cat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋