i think i am bi. i like sticking things up my anus. does that make my bi? i have a gf. she dosint no. should i tell her
TIA,
John
2007-07-18 09:34:25 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
No that doesn't make you bi. Are you attracted to both girls and guys? If so, then yes. If you're only attracted to girls, you're straight. If you're only attracted to guys, your gay. Sticking things up your anus has nothing to do with it.
2007-07-18 09:38:58 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
John,
That is a good question however there is no definant answer to that there are many men that like there girlfriends to use strapons or toys and such. Have you ever been with a guy? is there anything that when you close your eyes and think about a very attractive guy that just jumps out at you and makes you sigh... just as if you were visuallizing a girl? I think this may call for some experimentation with someone you trust but always keep your girlfriend in the loop she may cry, be angry and may eaven brake up with you but you have to stay true to your self first and others second... I would however if i were you suggest using some toys or having her use a strap on .. Im not sure what kind of person she is so cant speak to what she will say but I want you to remember one thing no matter what happens you are not wierd and you are not alone I will walk this road with you as long as you walk it till you find what you are looking for. You don't have to respond to me here as i would never break your confidentiality go to www/myspace.com/erosangelis and Click on add friend or MaLe me and E-mail me with ~~Proxi Grey~~ in the subject line
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2007-07-18 21:01:35 · answer #2 · answered by ~~Proxy Grey~~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, if you were bi you would want a guy sticking his thing up your anus (while still wanting to go at it with your gf not necessarily at the same time). It doesn't make you gay either.
Straight guys (all guys actually) do like it because of the contact with the prostate gland. Ask your gf to do it to you. It will make for interesting sex play
2007-07-18 09:41:21 · answer #3 · answered by nycguy10002 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I don't think you're bi. And you could tell your gf as long as you know how she feels about that.
2007-07-18 09:45:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
a lot of straight men stick things up their ***. In fact that's the only way you can get a prostate orgasm which is one of the most intense kinds of orgasms a man can experience. Actually, some women like to give their partner that kind of orgasms and suck all his juices out.
2007-07-18 09:40:56 · answer #5 · answered by Sean 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just becasue u like anal penetration doesnt make you gay or bi. You can actually include your girl in it if she is willing. Get a few toys and go to it.
2007-07-18 09:39:28 · answer #6 · answered by nappyhdfatgrl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think ur bi if u were bi it would be a guys dick in ur anus
2007-07-18 09:43:57 · answer #7 · answered by d418d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is an old joke: "If you have to ask if you are, then you probably are."
As for the girlfriend part; Listen to what she says about the subject in general. If she is negative about the subject, don't tell her.
2007-07-18 09:43:33 · answer #8 · answered by grumpyfiend 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your not bi just b/c you like things up your butt. If you wish it was a penis in your butt, then you may be.
2007-07-18 09:41:53 · answer #9 · answered by Love_cat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you think therefore you are
2007-07-18 09:39:46 · answer #10 · answered by boxjellÿ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋