I'd love to be able to find someone who I could really be myself with....to be able to share this with instead of hide it from. Someone who could help me be who I want to be....is there anyone?
2007-07-18 09:25:13 · 21 answers · asked by shytv 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
There are lots of women who would enjoy such a man. All the ones i know are dominant females like me.
2007-07-18 09:28:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 1⤋
Yes, there definitely are! CJ's answer above mine is great. I, by the way, have a couple of friends (strictly platonic) that I help crossdress and go shopping with and things like that. At first, I enjoyed helping them but did not figure I would ever want to date a crossdresser. Now, I really wouldn't mind, and maybe kind of hope, my next bf is a crossdresser.
2007-07-23 22:11:44 · answer #2 · answered by Michelle M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh absolutely! I definitely have a preference for crossdressers. One of the main reasons I first contacted my husband was because he was open about appreciating T/CD men. It took a bit of encouragement from me for him to admit that he did try dressing, but didn't really do it because there wasn't anyone to dress up for!
At this stage he has more girl clothes than boy clothes, and is comfortable enough that if we need to run to the store, he doesn't bother changing into socially acceptable clothes.
And we are not unique. We actually created a Yahoo group for crossdressers, Trans folks and their partners as sort of a support/advice/social group.
2007-07-23 13:24:31 · answer #3 · answered by C J 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
greater women than you recognize may be into one in each of those subject, extremely in case you're already masculine in the beginning. i understand what boat you're in, as i'm a guy who crossdresses on social accumulating yet nevertheless very lots a guy's guy. My lady chum knows of I do or perhaps likes it see you later as i don't make it a extensive-unfold habit. i'm assuming you're single, so I advise relationship as you commonly might. in case you do the web relationship subject, follow the shown relationship web content (Yahoo, tournament, genuine, etc.) and circumvent any grownup or fetish websites as they're a waste of time and cash. the form of woman you will desire to look for is man or woman who's amazingly open minded and slightly a freak interior the sheets, and bicurious or bisexual women are oftentimes solid bets as they are greater apt to adult men who crossdress. you do not gotta tell her suited away, yet you will desire to if issues start to get severe. remember that once you get to the component to telling a woman which you crossdress, her reaction can go the two approaches. She would the two like it or hate it, yet this is finally her decision to make. only be cool and calm approximately it whilst it comes time for that revelation. there is a few woman available who might want to fulfill your acquaintance. only wait and notice and you will at last discover her.
2016-10-21 22:51:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes there are - I am a woman wo loves her crossdressing fella to bits & fully accepts it as it's part of him.
He's said that if he gets too caught up in it to let him know & he'll put the breaks on for a wee while, probably respecting me more for admitting it than keeping quiet. It's a matter of finding a happy balance for our lives & my parculiarities.
We all have our oddities that no matter what they are, when we've found 'The One' we will be accepted & loved for who we are.
Sod what society says is the norm, stop looking for someone & try to enjoy life as it is for you at the moment. 'The One' for you will show up in an unexpected place when you're least expecting it - my fella did!
2007-07-25 12:10:38 · answer #5 · answered by Mindless 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are more out there than you think. You may have to leave the vanilla world (which is less vanilla than you think) to find a nice butchy bi girl, or a nice dominant one.
A crossdressing guy can be a real catch: sensitive, understanding, sensuous, tender and you can actually get an honest opinion about your outfits!
Keep trying, just don't expect the average woman who is looking for "the ideal guy"(who doesn't exist, btw) to buy in.
Find a girl who says: "wow!! how cool..when can we go out?!"
2007-07-18 09:40:46 · answer #6 · answered by Divadarya: trans n' proud 3 · 2⤊ 2⤋
:) I try to get my husband to crossdress for me. He hates it and I have to bribe him with sex. Poor guy!
Yes, there are women out there who like that sort of thing. :) Now, the real question is, are there any women out there who aren't already married who can accept a crossdressing man?
2007-07-18 09:31:00 · answer #7 · answered by Avie 7 · 5⤊ 0⤋
My ex girlfriend was VERY supportive of me, but now that im "out" and would classify myself as a TS not a crossdresser we broke up, but she is still my best friends and biggest supporter.
2007-07-24 11:33:43 · answer #8 · answered by Julie k 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have a very close friend who is a cross dresser, now he has chosen to be a woman, except for his male anatomy, but she will be getting implants for her breast, but she is wonderful, she is a great friend, and I just can't see writing her off because of this.
2007-07-25 20:01:06 · answer #9 · answered by >♥Cat♥< 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm. Well, I'd prefer it if he didn't crossdress when we were out on a date. But shopping, or at home, sure, I guess it wouldn't bother me. Different strokes for different folks.
...Just so long as he doesn't borrow MY stuff and stretches them out. >_>
2007-07-18 09:28:56 · answer #10 · answered by Riven Liether 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋