Whats your definition of a REAL woman?

Question

A lot of women talk about being a "REAL woman" and blah blah blah... but I don't think most women know what a real woman is.

To me a REAL woman is the opposite of a REAL man. A real woman is submissive and feminine. A real woman has enough emotional security to allow her man to dominate her. A real women is a housewife and supports her man. A real woman does not want to be anything like a man.

A women who can't cook is not a REAL woman. A feminist is not a REAL woman. A loud, confontational, aggressive women is not a REAL woman. A woman who dates men she can push around is not a REAL women.

Again... a real women is the opposite of a real man... hense the term "opposite sex". And a REAL woman wants a REAL man... an Alpha male.. like myself :)

the "strong" women have too many issues... so I just sleep with them and thats it. Would never marry one.

I like what I'm hearing so far people.. for the first time.

Answer 1

Brad - I don't know who hurt you or what happened but carrying around this much baggage is going to exhaust you after awhile. Every day you're on here with anger just oozing out of you. You're not going to find the answers you're looking for on YA and finding a REAL woman (or any woman) isn't going to change your deep dislike and disdain towards women. I hope you try to work out whatever happened to you because anyone carrying around as much anger as you are is going to end up living a very lonely life. Good Luck.

Answer 2

I'm going to take this question literally, instead of veering off-topic. A real woman is a human being with a v (fill in the blank). Her genetic encoding is XX, whereas a real man is Xy.

If you want to discuss what qualities real women have, I'd say loving, hard-working, honest, and loyal.

Cooking, and cleaning are not sex-linked traits, they're learned behaviors (which means men can do it too).

Answer 3

I consider a 'Strong' or 'Real' woman to be the same as a 'Strong' or 'Real' man, except for the fact that they are a woman.
Don't complain, just get the work done, do what you have to do, make rational decisions, be positive/make the best of situations, don't lie/cheat/steal, and so on, except in a feminine way.

A true strong woman does not have to SHOUT it. The women who claim strength and independence are usually the weakest.

Answer 4

You have serious issues with women intimidating you!

Look, I can cook (used to work as a chef), and I can do all the womanly things you speak of, but I know I cannot accept a man *controlling* me. I wouldn’t want the type of man who would be that way. I want a man to be my equal, my friend.

I am opposite of a man in the best ways, i.e., curvaceous, smell good, soft skin, etc. And that’s what good men REALLY want in a woman.

Answer 5

a REAL woman is secure in being who she is. she respects herself and others and knows when to stand up for herself and when to stay tactfully demure. A real woman is mature and capable, emotional but not over-emotional, and is capable of being independent, but greatly enjoys the company of her love. A real woman has a great amount of common sense and is wise. She is nurturing and kind. and a real woman is neither submissive or dominant, but in between. a Real woman, mon ami, is BALANCE. Being a real woman is a delicate balancing act between extremes.

Answer 6

a real women is somone who knows her body, her cycles, her emotions...is in tune with herself and surroundings, accepts and loves herself as she is, knows her needs and those close around her, knows when to accept things and when to hold on and is very intuitive. A real woman doesn't necessarily have to cook to be useful, nor does she need a husband to be considered a woman

Answer 7

I am a strong, independent woman. I am a molecular biologist. I am fun and easy going. I look like a model. And I would never, ever date a man like you. I only date alpha males who are secure enough to be comortable with whatever I do.

Answer 8

So you basically just want a female who will do everything you say or do and you consider that to be a real women.

Answer 9

I think the only requirement for a "real woman" is they have a vagina. other than that gender is on a scale. and yes i think jackal and brad are the same person.

Answer 10

brad, you would do well with a mindless automaton, like a stepford wife. You are not an Alpha male, you are a wanna be. A true alpha relies on his alpha female to rule the pack, her authority and power are equal to his.