I seem to find faults and have doubts with most women, They are mean. some are selfish, to proud, etc,.
I know I am not perfect myself, but am willing to give my shirt off my back' to give and take women, Please dont say you have not met the right one, Iv been around the block?
2007-07-18 08:45:46 · 16 answers · asked by denis9705 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think you're afraid of falling in love, because falling in love makes you vulnerable. As long as you can find fault in these women, you are, in essence, protecting yourself emotionally from getting in too deep.
Might be something to investigate further, possibly with a therapist. Usually those who are most critical of others have the lowest self esteem of all.
Good luck!
2007-07-18 08:51:45 · answer #1 · answered by Courtney 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No doubt you`ve been around the block and then some!You can either get over yourself or remain a lonely and miserable soul for life!Since you realise nobody is perfect why expect to find a perfect woman?
2007-07-18 15:55:57 · answer #2 · answered by quest? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're searching for a perfect woman. She doesn't exist.
So you can just play the field and keep your heart to yourself or you can change our attitude about women.
See, if we're supposed to accept the fact that you're not perfect - then so should you.
But that's OK. Just play the field and be a bachelor all your life. There's nothing wrong with that. Really there isn't.
2007-07-18 15:53:29 · answer #3 · answered by Barbara B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They don't say nice guys last for a reason. It seems like you've been burned before. It's nice to give the shirt off your back to a girl that you like, but remember that they have to earn that shirt. My approach is that every woman that you date starts off at a zero on the generosity scale. In order to earn that 100 rating, they have to earn it, and no I don't mean through sexual favors or anything demeaning. I'm talking about character. And once they do, then you know she's the one.
2007-07-18 15:55:52 · answer #4 · answered by generasian2001 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should find different ways to meet quality women. If you have a hobby or interest, join a group and check out the women there, at least you will have some things in common. And you can check out there social and communicative skills in the process.
2007-07-18 15:50:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
nothing's wrong with you, except maybe you pick the wrong women or hang out with the wrong crowd, women are mean these days, they are selfish, they are proud, they are brought up in society to believe that they DESERVE to be treated a certain way regardless of how they treat others. Keep looking.
2007-07-18 15:50:02 · answer #6 · answered by reddevilbloodymary 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First..... You can never jog the block too many times...... may
get tiring but just puts you in better shape for the "right"one! :-)
Second..... you are right everyone has faults and that's what makes us all unique and beautiful..... Try to keep an open mind and find faults as diversity.......not faults!
Good Luck in your jog!
2007-07-18 16:15:57 · answer #7 · answered by Sunshine's Pic Is on 360 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
What a wonderfully old fashioned word that is (courting),i love it. Maybe that's the problem,you have old fashioned values and the women you go for,haven't. So,you just haven't met the right one yet. Doesn't mean there's anything wrong with you at all.....
2007-07-18 15:56:49 · answer #8 · answered by trish b 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you have to accept that the PERFECT woman isnt out there we all have imperfections and you have to be willing to accept that or you will NEVER be happy with the women you meet. If you want to find a nice girl go to places wher they would be to meet the right one. Church, coffee shop or book store not women who are at bars getting trashed or you will never find her.
2007-07-18 15:53:42 · answer #9 · answered by Bellatres 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you want the perfact woman get yourself and bottle of astroglide and porno, the fact is everyone is f**ked up some way, including you the best marriage is to find someone that is f**ked up the same way you are or as close to it,
if you think your going to find a woman that cooks, cleans, picks up after you, a perfact lady in public and total whore in bed, smart funny and gorgous who also happens to play a mean game of madden, like to invite her girl friends in to the bed room, loves kung fu movies, and knows how to change her own oil, good luck it aint going to happen
2007-07-18 16:19:47 · answer #10 · answered by eyesinthedrk 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋