That is if you have certain finacial obligations to meet and you know your hubands waranty will run out sooner or later.
2007-07-18 08:32:24 · 37 answers · asked by Vivianna 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The background is a viking ship. It's only a question. I think if a women has two children it is better that she has an army of loyal men to help look after them. What's wrong with that?
2007-07-18 10:35:01 · update #1
Sure she should have one in the wings. It's called planning for life to happen. You know expect the best, but prepare for the worst?
I have a couple of back ups (wink wink) if something happened to my husband.
2007-07-18 11:22:25 · answer #1 · answered by zeebarista 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO. You have an American flag in your background and a huge part of the American ideology is being INDEPENDENT. If you think you'll be getting a divorce (or even with a stable relationship), start working on YOU. A man is not obligated to lift you up, only YOU are. You should go back to school, find a better job, get your finances straight. Start doing what you need to do to get YOUR LIFE STRAIGHT. You should not expect anyone else to straighten your life out for you. Marriage is supposed to be the binding of two people for love. If you don't love him, what's he getting? Some leach that occasionally gives him some and eventually walk away with half of what he owns? NO. I don't mean to sound harsh, but you should seriously reevaluate yourself, your values, your life, and LOVE. How can you expect to be a happy healthy person if you live like a leach? How can you expect to make anyone else happy if you're just using them? Marriage should never be a financial investment. It should be a heart investment. It should happen when two self-sufficient, whole people come together and find that they experience something more than what life can offer otherwise when they spend their time together. In marriage you form a FAMILY, not a relationship like that a flea has with a dog. Your post makes me feel sorry for you that you have not given yourself the opportunity to flourish on your own. If you get out there on your own and you are determined to make a life, YOU WILL FLOURISH and you will have yourself to thank for it. You will also be able to open yourself up for real love, love with yourself and hopefully with the husband you have now. Good luck in your journey.
2007-07-18 08:43:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wow! As a marriage consultant, I am worried about your thinking. If you married a man with a "warranty", then you need to stay away from the dealership! Marriage is not a leasing agreement and it should be taken seriously. If money is the only reason you married this person, I feel sorry for you because chances are he doesn't know and you will be hurting an innocent and hopeful man. You reap what you sow and trust me sweetheart, you are on your way to sowing a serious harvest! My answer is definitely no!
2007-07-18 08:36:58 · answer #3 · answered by hamptoncutie204 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends. If her husband hasn't lived up to his obligations in the marraige. If he turned into some kind of bastard or something. Does he drink, hit or verbally abuse? In a case like that and the money runs out as well, why not. Then I would say "YOU GO GIRL!" If he is a good guy who has done right by you, then I would have to say that your way of thinking is pretty cold!
2007-07-18 13:54:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally think thats a horrible way to live in ur marriage...sounds like ur using ur husband or looking to use a man in the future if u can't make ends meet...Get a better paying job instead.
2007-07-18 08:36:41 · answer #5 · answered by mrsprincess07 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So, you don't think you can be an independent and responsible woman? You really need someone to take care of you? You might be the one left out in the end without any warranty left.
2007-07-18 08:37:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL..
Not a bad idea at all!
A few conditions apply however:
He has to be at least a few years younger
With a great sense of humor
Money in the bank
Quite healthy in every way imaginable
Under those conditions..I think it might work..
Have a great day all..And enjoy the summer! ;))
2007-07-18 09:03:22 · answer #7 · answered by howdoilvthee 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm! and should your husband have a replacement wife in reserve? Lets hope these two don't meet they might become attracted to each other.
2007-07-18 08:40:29 · answer #8 · answered by fuzzykitty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. A marriage is an agreement to work together to build a life together, not to use someone until you are bored.
Grow up and learn to spell, or at least use the spell check feature.
2007-07-18 08:36:39 · answer #9 · answered by M S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, you might be one of the coldest people I've ever encountered. For his sake, I hope he's got a replacement wife lined up, or at least something on the side. Better a bimbo than you.
2007-07-18 08:37:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋