Can I be pergant?

Question

I'm 14 years old and already into sex. well my mom thinks I'm miss goody two shoes... well I made a mistake. and I don't know if I'm pergant. I have been worried for a long time. i have not started my cycle yet. I'm suposse to tommrow or the next day. or sometime this week.. i don't want to tell anybody. and if i am pergant. I can't go to the doctor. if i am pergant I don't want the child i am way to younge and no wjust starting high school. i really do regret doing this stuff because i never really knew anything about it. I was just curious. so I don't know what to do or how to do it i don't know if i'm pergant... really i don't want to find out.. how could i know if i'm pergant?

Answer 1

Why would you do something you don't know anything about? Maybe you should have learned about it instead of just doing it. You don't want the child? If you were ready to go and spread your legs you can spread them again and have that baby, give him/her to a family that actually deserves him/her. My aunt can't have children anymore and she wants kids so bad. You have to go to the doctor you have no choice. Many girls in my school made that mistake and had children at 14 and they still went to school and got an education, you can do it. That is life, own up to your mistake. What do you mean how can you know? Its called a pregnancy test. Next time get some birth control and condoms.

Answer 2

This is why 14 year old CHILDREN should not be having sex. If you think your too young to be 'pergant' then what the hell makes you think you are old enough to have sex. Never mind contraception enjoy being a kid BECAUSE THATS WHAT YOU ARE. If you dont have your period you must see someone you cant keep something like this to yourself. Im glad you realised you have made a mistake. Unfortunatly if you partake in adult activities then you have to make adult decisions, if you are pregnant and you dont want it there are choices, im not one to promote abortion, it can have a huge effect on your body in the long term but theres also adoption. If you arent pregnant stay away from boys bits because if not your next question on here will be... HAVE I GOT AN STD???

Answer 3

Well first question is...Is ur period allways on time?And were u on birth control?? Probubly not huh since ur asking if u could be pregnant..LOL Well lets see. Are u bloated?? Are u tierd?? Have a pimple or two?? Craving chocolete?? Those are all signs of ur period coming..The thing is,is when u get pregnant its 14 days after the first day of ur last period..So u need to go back and count and if u had sex 14 to 19 days after ur first days last period yes u could be preg...Sperm can live for i think 6 days inside u but..can only get u pregnant in the first 24 hours..And as for u not wanting it..Thats up to u..I personally do not beleave in abortion..It is a human being..And there are allways millions of people wanting to adopted.But thats ur choice i just hope u make a god one..I dont want to sound like a mom but u really do need to be on birth control if ur gonna be messing around..or just tell the dude hey,,slap a condom on or do it for him..its kinda fun..Haha!And as for ur mom...beleave it or not she is ur best friend u just dont know it yet..and she can handle more then u know give her a chance ok?? Good luck and be careful!

Answer 4

Hmm, pergant?
It's PREGNANT!!!!

Now learn from this mistake and stop believing that your parents think that you are miss Goody Two Shoes, parents know more than you think, and probably suspect that you are going through this anyway.

And you cannot hide it forever, so you better come clean now, learn from this and stop having sex until you are married and ready to deal with the consequences of messing around with the human reproduction cycle.

Answer 5

Ok I can go down that list and give neg rating to almost everyone who's answered so far. What you do is your choice and you know the consequences.
Google "planned parenthood" there should be a clinic somewhere near you. They keep it confidential and when they call your house they pretend to be a friend from school. It's a good way to keep your parents uninvolved. I'd tell you to go get a test from the store but some places won't sell those tests to minors... it's a shame. Planned parenthood can help you with finding out if you are, test you for std's and other scary stuff and help find you care if you are pregnant. They'll give you options for you and the baby. You can carry it to term and put it up for adoption or have an abortion. It's 100% your choice. Don't let people tell you otherwise. But you should talk to your mom if you are pregnant. If you're not, there's no reason to get her mad at you. Just learn your lesson and move on but if you are let her know you know you made a mistake and regret it. If she's adamant that you don't get an abortion then there are ways to go to school and such. Who knows, maybe she'll agree to help you raise it while you finish school. Don't worry about what other people think about you because those who judge you will be judged and most likely, end up in the same situation later in life. Keep your head up girl. It'll be alright

OH i also forgot to mention you can talk to your school nurse. They are supposed to keep it confidential too.

Answer 6

If you have friend that can drive, have them take you to the store and buy a pregnancy test or go to the nearest Planned Parenthood, they do pregnancy testing for free. As for if you are, you got yourself into this, you need to take responsibility for it. That means you need to tell your mom. Do not just have an abortion without thinking of other options. If you choose an abortion just think long and hard about it because it will probably be something that you would regret for the rest of your life. If you took the adoption route, you might still be able to have contact with your baby and the family that adopted her. Ultimatlly the decision is up to you but it is not a decision to be made lightly or on a whim, think about how each of them is going to affect your life.

Answer 7

Well you have to consider several factors.
1) Did he wear a condom? If so, did it rip? If he was wearing one and it didnt break, you are fine. If he didnt wear one, but "finished" out of you, odds are you are not pregnant. If he "finished" in you, then you have a chance.

2) Have you skipped a cycle? If no, then wait for it to come, and if you skip it, go to a clinic and go check.

3) Have you tried a pregnancy test? They are simple, and no one needs to know. Just go to any pharmacy and get one (First Response is a good brand). All you need to do is pee on it and wait for the result.

Please remember that you are young and have your whole life ahead of you... so no need to rush into things such as sex at such an early age.

Best of luck!

Answer 8

First of all, dont panic until your period is late. Second of all, use protection.

If you want some ideas of ways to tell if you are pregnent or not, pay attention to your body. Do you feel extra tired all the time? Are your feet swelling? Do you feel bloated or like you are retaining water?

If you want to know for sure, take a pregnency test. They make some now that you can take as soon as the day after your missed period.

Good luck honey...I know what you're going thru, I had an abortion when I was 18.

Answer 9

If after a test you are pregnant, please think about everything when deciding what to do... later in life you may regret your decision. If you are not pregnant, then this is warning, you must be careful. Please take precautions and save yourself from now on. Always remember though, we are all human and mistakes happen to all of us-its how we learn and everything happens for a reason. Talk to your Mum- she was your age once also!! and some of the guys above are a little small minded.

Answer 10

Okay first things first. Go to English class instead of having sex. It's pregnant. Second 14 is a little to young to be having sex. I was two years older when I started having sex and I regret it once I think about what I know now and what I've been through (the pregnancy scares and possible STD scares) when I look back. Third only way to know if you're pregnant or not is wait until your supposed to get your period. If you miss it (also since you've been worrying you could miss your period) take a pregnancy test. If it comes out positive then take another. If that comes out positive then go to your nearest clinic (most do not require parental permission) and since you do not want the baby you have the choice of abortion or adoption. Personally I do NOT suggest abortion because there are all types of concequences to deal with (something going wrong and leaving you unable to have kids to your own regrets about it) but if that is your only choice...Lastly just stop having sex. You probably won't listen ( I didn't) but I really hope you do!

Answer 11

Well first its this thing called spell check. Why don't you try it!!
14 years old you are still a child yourself. A child raising a child! Go get a HPT (Home Pregnancy Test), and see! If you are pregnant I wish you the best and if you aren't I hope you have learned your lesson. Another thing curiosity killed the cat.