What should I doo w/ a friend that steals?

Question

I ahd a sleepover a year ago and a friend sto;e 2 cds and 2 magazines. Her mom found them under her bed about nine monthts after the theft. Then, at my recent sleepover, I think she stole 7 pens. I'm not 100% postive, but she was acting really weird when I asked everyone to check their bags. She didn't and her mom came and she dashed out the door. Then, I set her up and friend's neighborhood pool. I took two jelly roll pens and placed them on top of my things. Then, after 2 hours of swimming, she got out of the pool and sat near my things. I wasn't looking so she wouldn't become suspicious. She hid under her towl while putting on her shoes. She got up and said goodbye and walked out of the gate. I checked my stuff and one of the pens weren't there. I made sure that it didn't fall out or something and I dumped everything out of my bag. I didn't find it.
I don't know what to do. Some of my friends believed that she stole it and some don't. she keeps lying about stealing. Help?
thx!

Answer 1

.Friends like that who needs enemy's! confront her alone. If she denies it break off your friendship. Sorry to here that Friend are hard to come by, good one that is!!

Answer 2

You should go and confront her about her problem of stealing things, Sounds easy but it is too difficult to do in real life...

You should rebuke her of what she's doing..dont tolerate it,

I'll give you an illustration of what will happen if you get shy and afraid on telling her...

TRAFFIC LIGHTS

a car runs....if you let her go(tolerate her acts) and give only what she WANTS to hear all the cpositive nad not rebuking her(runs in green traffic light signal)...soon she will bump on a truck or bus.

You must make her stop or get ready sometimes.....If you confront her, she will be ashamed and will feel a hurt inside, but if you said it already she will be liberated and would be concious on her acts.....make her stop(red) or ready(orange) like "oh! stop or else your gonna be bumped"

GET my point??

You dont only give what they want to hear but you must give what they NEED to hear from you...If you are a friend to her then you must correct her acts or else larger stealing cases will be her trouble if she will continue....now in her early stage you must already stop it....

GOOD LUCK ^_^

Answer 3

You have a klepto on your hands....one of the ten commandents states that you should not steal....and yet we do.....people need to spend a night in jail just so they can understand what they have when they lose their individual freedom..... tell your friend that dumping time is now...and begone.

Answer 4

Michael O, you suck. The ten commandments? Yeah, and it also says "thou shall not covet thy neighbor's wife" You mean to tell me that you've never met a dude's girlfriend/wife, and spanked it to her? Whatever. Anyways, about your friend, tell her that you're not cool with her stealing your sh it, and if she wants to steal cool stuff FOR you, then that'll work, otherwise, beat her a ss and get your stuff back.

Answer 5

You should confront her. If you don't she may continue to steal things from you. She might even have a bigger problem (Cleptomaniac).She might be poor or just be compulsed to steal.

Answer 6

Explain to her that if she wants to barrow something then she could just ask and you would let her barrow it. If anything do not accuse her of stealing.

Answer 7

talk 2 her about it.

Answer 8

u dont need a friend like that send her packing

Answer 9

this is an easy one! stop inviting her anywhere with you and don't hang around with her

Answer 10

She is crazy ...