My sister has a timeshare at a resort near where we live. She came down for a week and invited me and my husband to meet them there. We were going to go out for dinner or do something that evening. When we got there, we talked a little and she wanted to go in the hot tub before we went out. To make a long story short...She wanted us to go in to, but we weren't prepaired with bathing suits, so we passed, but she went in nude in front of us. I never expected her to do that. She really wanted us to go in nude too. This is my sister, I couldn't believe it. What would you have done? No she NEVER did anything like this before.
2007-07-18 06:07:52 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Hmmm? She obviously doesn't have any reservations about doffing her clothing, so she's not inhibited in any way. Does she ever mention doing things like that before? Maybe she she just wanted to relax and unwind a bit before heading out. You said, "meet them there," were there other people there besides you three at the time this happened? Was she "hinting" at anything in particular before she did this? All those questions popped into my head after I read that twice through. No biggie really, I'd still answer your question with: TALK TO HER. When you talk to her, find out what she was trying to accomplish (if anything, it could be entirely innocent, or find out if she had an underlying motive). I really don't think her actions are "bad" in a negative sense of the word, it's just, as you said "she never did anything like that before." Best of luck to you & hope you get an acceptable answer from her.
2007-07-18 06:29:10 · answer #1 · answered by Andy K 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, I would tell her if she ever does this nude in front of you ever again anywhere, you will not take her anywhere of this sort ever again, that is what I would do. Keep your standards! Also, remind her public indecency is against the law, inside a public place or outside! Wait, was this a hot tub in your own private room? Refer to the above and let her know this is not to happen ever again, or you won't invite her. Or, just don't invite her ever again and let her know why.
2007-07-18 06:39:51 · answer #2 · answered by elvlayarvvi fEisty wife and mom 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe her and husband had been smoking a little somethin somethin before you got there. Who knows?
Or maybe she was wating for the right time to tell you that she is moving to a nudist colony....or maybe she is bipolar. It could a number of things.
Seeing as how my sister is about 250lbs, if she did that i would have to look at her long enough to slap her silly and then flee screaming.
Sorry that happened to you in front of your husband. How embarrassing!
2007-07-18 06:19:43 · answer #3 · answered by bellesnail 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you made the right choice by passing on that one.
Maybe it's her way of making the moves on your husband? How did he react to all this? Also who was with your sister, you said you went to meet them, what did this other person do? I think you need to rethink your family get togethers from now on. I'd be shocked if my sister did that also.
2007-07-18 06:33:01 · answer #4 · answered by Dan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We would have joined her in the hot tub and had some family hot time together. I bet my BF would have had a blast with two sisters.
2007-07-18 06:27:27 · answer #5 · answered by sweety 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what I would do but it sounds like she wants to do more than just sit in the hot tub with the two of you.
2007-07-18 06:14:30 · answer #6 · answered by Kristee 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is really weird....Maybe she had something happen to her that you arent aware of, or she could also be a nudist. Whatever is going on, you need to make it clear to her that she cannot undress in front of you (I would have a fit if a girl undressed in front of my bf)...
2007-07-18 06:12:54 · answer #7 · answered by Marie Catherine 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she has joined a nudist colony since you last talked. This is odd, to say the least.
2007-07-18 06:19:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
is she lonely? i mean as in staying as well as in life. does she has problems? mental or physical? She needs some comfort and some fun in life due to those things may be.
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2007-07-18 06:50:09 · answer #9 · answered by bh37bh37 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So what exactly is it you saw that you have never seen before in your life?
2007-07-18 06:48:34 · answer #10 · answered by acmeraven 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋