Lately instead of I it's we, instead of me it's us, I barely have a thought that doesn't have something to do with my fiance. This is so strange to me, I have never been this type of person- so " in love" with someone other than myself. Is this normal for brides to be? And will this go away? ( I don't think I want it to)
Thanks in advance!
2007-07-18 05:48:46 · 5 answers · asked by Still*Perfect 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Keep your girlfriends and do a girls night out about once a month just to keep in touch. i have been married for 8 years. It is the quality of your friends that will get you through the really tough times. You are going to change and so is he. Give each other the gift of not expecting things to stay the same. What you are feeling now will fade, the truth of the matter is that is the natrual ebb and flow of things. Their will be times that you will not be able to be close enough to each other and times you can't stand each other but as long as you realize this happens to all couples and you will have that feeling of bliss a lot over time. Hopefully over time their will be more and more bliss and less and less of the other stuff.
2007-07-18 06:14:21 · answer #1 · answered by phrognut 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it should be that way if you are about to commit to someone. It wont go away if you keep the marriage flourished with love from both of you. Just remember though, no matter good it seems to be 1, sometimes you do have to take time for yourselves and remember who you are. Or it could turn sour. Dont over do it, but enjoy, when your truly in love, marriage is wonderful, alot of work, but wonderful
2007-07-18 13:09:04 · answer #2 · answered by How can I help? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
welcome to the world of a married woman. Nothing wrong with it, but it is most important that you don't lose sight of who you are and what you want as an individual. Right now both you and your fiance are on the same page, so its easy, but there will come a time when you will need to be you.
2007-07-18 12:55:56 · answer #3 · answered by jlcjills 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is perfectly normal to "lose yourself" in the relationship for a while.
One day, you will return to being yourself, but you will also have another person who is always on your mind. It is only right for it to be that way.
When you decide to marry, part of the wedding vows is "The two shall become one... foresaking all others."
You are becoming one with each other, and as long as you remain true to your vows, you will remain as one for the rest of your lives.
But you will still always be YOU.
Congratulations and best wishes!!!
2007-07-18 12:54:01 · answer #4 · answered by diva_500 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like it, what are you worried about?
2007-07-18 12:54:22 · answer #5 · answered by greeneyes_bjb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋