Hi, I find that I personalize almost everything as an attach on me. I think it is related to low self esteem. But here is an example, I sold some special fabric on ebay and now I see that person is selling it to make more money in their fancy store. It hurts my feelings that they didn't want my fabric. I know that sounds ridiculous, but I tend to see the negative first. I think I have a good idea why, as I am 56, recently retired and lonely, so I think my current auto default is to negative . ??? I have had very popular good times in my life, so ???
2007-07-18 05:23:10 · 2 answers · asked by I Love Jesus 5 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
At the age of 56, you can expect to be around long enough to embrace a fresh outlook on life.
There is no need to continue to ruminate about past negativity or failures. Failure is as much a part of life as is success.
You have a great opportunity to start living completely in the present and accepting every second as an expected source of joy and contentment.
Relegate those negative thoughts to the background of your consciousness. It's easy to do. By become aware of these thoughts as only presentations to the consciousness which can be contemplated but need not be adhered to.
2007-07-19 06:53:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sensitivity it's not a failing but if you wear it on your sleeve you will get hurt.
i think the knocks are worth it - i hope you already see that and this question is already answered in your heart!
Buff.
2007-07-18 12:33:01 · answer #2 · answered by . 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋