I try to be as good a person as possible and I just keep getting crapped on. I help everyone out in anyway I possibly can. I know I'm a good person; but almost nothing has ever really been good in my life. I had a unbelievably hellish childhood. Very unsavory teen years. And nothing seems to be going right for me now. My supposed best friend stole my money. My landlord talks crap behind my back. My boyfriend takes his anger out on me(not physically). I have no $ and little work. Everytime I think things are getting better; they get worse. I know things could always be worse than they are; but that doesn't make things any better. I used to believe in karma, but my life proves that is bullpoo. I see all these horrible people who really do have good lifes. Then I look at my life and other great peoples lifes and wonder what's the point of being a good, caring, giving, and loving person? You don't get anything back. People just use you, and take anything and everything they can from you.
2007-07-18 05:04:08 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
I'm not really looking for an answer I guess. I know life is just a bunch of random events. I know good and bad things happen to everyone; I just don't understand why mostly bad things happen to me. I know none of you can answer that question either. I guess I just kind of needed to vent. Thanx for listening...
2007-07-18 05:07:02 · update #1
I have very good perspective; thank you. I'm not going to change who I am because bad things happen to me. I'm just not going to trust people as easily as I used to. I will forever be someone who will help out those in need.
2007-07-18 05:14:58 · update #2
Bad things happen to everyone.
Good things happen to everyone too.
You just have look harder...change your perspective.
2007-07-18 05:09:00 · answer #1 · answered by Full of Id 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sometimes you simply empower those bad people around you to treat you that way. I feel that you always have to remember, you are better than you know and you really DO deserve the very best, and strive for it. It seems that now is the time to get a little selfish and stop helping others until you help yourself.
Best wishes.
PS bad things happen to bad people as well; just like good things can happen to good people.
2007-07-18 05:11:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that's just the way the society is. I know how it is to be too good to others, they somehow will just takes you for granted. Being good to a person somewhat raise their expectations of you, they expect you to always be there, always say yes, and when you don't they gets piss off, they just simply takes you for granted.
I guess people tends to forget how important others are sometimes. We can't change that. All we can do is to know who's worth it and who doesn't, because there are people who actually realize how important others are and appreciate others instead of taking them for granted.
Best we could is to pray hard that at the very least, even if the world takes us for granted, the important peoples in our life doesn't. That's all that really matters.
2007-07-18 05:29:11 · answer #3 · answered by Hornet One 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They happen to everyone, it just feels like your the only one. Believe me your not. I have been told by many people i have a heart of gold and yet i was sexually abused and i am now going to a cardiologist because they now think there is something wrong with my heart. You are not the only one. Best wishes to you, things will get better. As they say, things will get better in the end, if they're not better, its not the end. :-)
2007-07-18 05:19:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
i don`t know,,some people believe in karma,some people just say its bad luck,other say its destiny,,me,i just reckon its the hand we`ve been dealt in life,or it could just b,4 every good thing that happens,something bad has 2 happen,hope this helps some,,even though i don`t understand it myself,lol
2007-07-18 18:47:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋