Hey you guys Im going on my first gay date and I need some tips?

Question

You guys helped me previously when I was under a different user nameto find friends well i found someone and he goes to the same school as me, were both ninth graders and I need to know some tips such as were to go beacuse im only working on a 45 dollar budget lol :p also if things go right how do I make a move? Help me plz! BTW were 14

Answer 1

Be yourself! That's the most important thing!
You shouldn't spend more than $45 on a dinner. Share an appetizer, that's maybe $6-7. Meals can range from $10-20, depending on the type of place your going. So... avoid steak? That's usually expensive. $6 bucks for drinks, and some money left over for a tip. You should be able to easily pay. You could split it... Unless you invited him out, then I would pay for it. If things are going good, make a move. For all you know, he might try to. It will go great!

Answer 2

How nice, that you have accepted yourself at such an early age !!!! I was 25 when I finally came out. Okay ,about your date......Since money is an issue, I have a great idea for you. Lunch in the park it makes for an inexpensive , relaxing, date.You get to be outside, enjoying the weather and your cute friend as well. There is also the coffee ,a.k.a ,Starbucks date, where you can just chat with one another and it is quite relaxing as well. The movie date is okay, but it cuts down on your interaction time. The good thing about the movie date, however, is being able to hold his hand in the dark.Which could be the answer to your second question (lol) Hope this helped. Good Luck and have a great time kiddo.

Answer 3

everyone keeps saying movies and I agree... but why not go do something like go putt putt golfing, that doesn't cost too much, then find some place cute for dinner. Not every place you go too will have dinner for like $15 a plate. So go online in your neighborhood and look at menus and prices. That way you can decide if you want to go to the Olive Garden or like TGIFriday's. Those places aren't too badly priced... Plus you never know your date might want to go in on dinner, some guys do that. But it's summer time get out side and have fun! You could even go to the YMCA go swimming, then see a movie, and dinner... So it's a whole day event kind of thing. Good luck and best wishes on your first date! Take care! :)

Answer 4

A movie is always a good option for a first date, but you could always ask him what he would like to do. When I was dating I would always have my date order first then order second so I could make sure I came in under budget. If you do a movie see if you can get a student discount. If you get your ticket then go eat close to the theater while you wait for your movie you can usually skip snacks during the movie.

It is general wisdom that nothing hot and or heavy happens until the 3rd date. I always tried to keep to that rule. Some go faster some go slower.

Answer 5

The above ideas, lunch, movie etc are great.

Since this is your first date you should not expect to have to "make a move". Since the 2 of you are only 14 don't rush to get to the sex part - you'll have plenty of time for that. Moving too fast can ruin a relationship at any age. Just build up the friendship/relationship first.

Have fun.

Answer 6

yes. if he wont kiss you he doesnt get anything else either. it probably means hes not really 100 % gay or that he is ashamed.

thats how males treat prostitutes they have no respect for. if he is gay and he wants you, he has to learn early that affection comes befor nookie.

In any case please don't go all the way the first time, however tempted you might both be. just relax and get to know each other. take your time. the first time can really hurt if you arent ready.

wait till you have at least pleasured yourself enough to know your own body and how everything feels. then whether you are a top or a bottom or both you will know how rough or gentle you can be.

Answer 7

You are only 14,keep it simple.Don't worry about making a "move".You have the rest of your life ahead of you.Beleive me theres plenty of time for "fun".
Just take it easy and talk to your date,let him know what's on your mind,honesty is very sexxy.
Ask him what he'd like to do or if there is someplace he'd like to go.
See if one of you will pay for the meal and the other for the movie,mini golf,or what have you.Give yourselves some time to talk but not to much.
Have fun kid your only young once!

Answer 8

Something simple, like the others said. Out to lunch, and a movie. Or if you guys don't like movies so much you could go to a gaming arcade, or just take a walk.

You don't have to do any fancy crap, just do something simple for the first date and be yourself.

Answer 9

I took my first ever date to the movies. I know it's cliché but it worked out well. Afterwards we went to the mall.

Just act like their your friend, but more then your friend. And act as you do when around friends.

If you think it's going right ask him on a second date or maybe he'll ask you first. ;)

Answer 10

For your age, don't make things too dramatic. Actually, no one should be so dramatic if it's a first date. Instead, take things simply and as friends. Don't feel like it's a movie or cheap show. Also, don't talk too much about yourself. Ask him simple things about himself, and of course, be yourself.