i already know the girl, where she lives...a friend he told stuff too and who dropped him off over the girl already told me everything..the girl works for his company and they have had sex in the office...yet he still lies and got her lying to....i gonna to catch them then but until then its hard being nice...
2007-07-18 04:21:58 · 21 answers · asked by Jacqueline 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
why waste the time to even try,
just leave!!!!
life is to short you dont need to bust him. Just pack up and leave.
2007-07-18 05:13:52 · answer #1 · answered by Laine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A cheating spouse makes people face a horrible crossroads. Do I leave him because I can't trust him anymore? or should I give him another chance? If you leave him, you have to understand beforehand just how much your life is going to change without him. But if you stay with him, can you live and trust him ever again? Is it worth it for you to pretend everything is fine when it's not? In such cases, you need to think about yourself and yourself only, he is obviously not doing it for you. He is strictly satisfying himself. So get your sources straight, confront him and get yourself some peace of mind. Then evaluate your decision so that you can take action and start living the life you want to live. Remember something, be fair to yourself and provide yourself with the happiness you deserve.
2007-07-18 11:43:54 · answer #2 · answered by onlinetherapist.com 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you know he is lying then I would confront both of them, together if need be. If his friend has already told you everything then you have all the evidence that you need. It's one thing for somebody to cheat, confess to their wrong doing and then stop cheating and do the right thing. But if he is still lying then it seems as if he wants to continue his fling with this woman.
2007-07-18 11:26:17 · answer #3 · answered by Hoping he will bless me with #1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you already know, what else are you looking for? You don't need evidence. You know so deal with it. Tell him to leave or you leave. It doesn't matter anymore if he lies or he gets her to lie or whatever. What matters is that he is a cheater and now you have either accept it and put up with it or don't accept it and leave.
2007-07-18 11:40:09 · answer #4 · answered by Lana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why be nice? If one of his friends sold him out, why do you have to be nice? He is the one that is doing something wrong here....not you. Tell him to pound sand and if he knows you are serious, he may stop his cheating to win you back but the old saying goes.....once a cheater, always a cheater.
2007-07-18 11:27:49 · answer #5 · answered by JESSICA S 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try to CATCH him with your eyes. If not he'll always deny it. Set him up. He'll feel like a punk PLUS you'llhave proof. Then file for divorce and take it all.
2007-07-18 16:58:36 · answer #6 · answered by Lotusnivy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so your basically going off of what some one else says? i always give the man the benefit of the doubt until pr oven guilty. try being your own private investigator and pop up unexpectedly in places.
2007-07-18 11:32:36 · answer #7 · answered by mz. vee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you sticking around playing his game? If you're going to leave him over it, just go and make a happy existance for yourself.
2007-07-18 11:36:53 · answer #8 · answered by Blue Love Aura 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know he had sex with another woman. You know he's lying to you constantly. Why are you still there?
2007-07-18 11:30:08 · answer #9 · answered by Comancheria 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, I would let him know about all of the info you have and tell him that you are far more intelligent than he thinks you are, also, give him an ultimatum, let him know that you are not going to stick around and take this abuse, and if he wants to be with her, he should be a man and tell you to your face, afterall, we shouldnt' do things we are not proud of...
2007-07-18 11:26:10 · answer #10 · answered by ilovelilPhof 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋