when i lost my virginty... my b/f thought i was cheating on him bcause my wall neva broke... my doctor said he probably wasn't mature enough (big or hard enough) or i just wasn't ready and it still haven't broken yet... so n/e advice on how to break it or just keep having sex till it's broken? or is there another solution?
2007-07-18 04:11:32 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You clearly are not mature enough to be having sex anyway. Keep your legs closed until you get your head together. And if you're not strong enough to say "No!" at least be smart enough to use protection and birth control. This is the dumbest question I've read today. I'm sure there'll be others...so don't worry.
2007-07-18 04:15:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Okay first it is your hymen not your wall. Secondly the first time you have sex the hymen doesn't always break. So you can keep having sex till it does. Just use protection if you are honestly that worried get a dildo and do it yourself no joke.
My ex thought I wasn't a virgin either cause i didn't bleed the first time, then the second time i did. Don't worry about what he says in reference to that you told him the truth and if he doesn't believe you then you have bigger issues than you thought. Work on both of your trust issues.
2007-07-18 11:18:46 · answer #2 · answered by Kris 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why in the world would you want to break it? leave it alone and when the boyfriend hits the spot the right way, it will tear and then its gone.
I don't believe he is too small or not hard enough at all being that there are many women that their hymen does not break the first few times.
If it bothers you that much, get a vibrator and do it yourself but its not the same!
2007-07-18 11:17:06 · answer #3 · answered by Frank L 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your boyfriend is freakin retarded. how would that signify you cheating? Slap him in the face for me, ok? And while you're at it, quit complaining about your wall and be glad it's still there so you can lie to the guy you sleep with next week and tell him you're a virgin. Haha, this topic reminds me of a joke in high school involving super glue . . .
2007-07-18 11:17:12 · answer #4 · answered by Matt R 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You even asking this question tells me that you shouldn't be having sex anyway. Leave your hymen alone, quick having sex and grow up first. When you are finally ready (and married), your husband will appreciate the fact that it hasn't been broken and will value that about you.
2007-07-18 11:20:12 · answer #5 · answered by Terri 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
some people don't have a hymen, or it could have broken at an earlier age from some sort of physical activity?
it's not a big deal. your boyfriend is shallow.
your sex life before him isn't any of his business.
my solution for you is to find a boyfriend who likes YOU for YOU.... this one is a jerk.
2007-07-18 11:17:38 · answer #6 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just leave it be...your hymen will break at some point, probably during intercourse, as it should. It's harming nothing by being there so why force a break?
2007-07-18 11:15:07 · answer #7 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
some people dont have the wall...if i were you, i wont even be worring about it
2007-07-18 11:15:19 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well...is it that important to u to break it....if so...just find a guy who is bigger next time...that should break it to bits...
2007-07-18 11:15:33 · answer #9 · answered by spice g 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋