My first sex I had when I was 18 with girl who was 20. After I was with girls who were 27 and with 24, 20 when I was 21. But with that girls I didn't enjoy and get stimulation. Now I'm 22, and when I see girls who are 15 or 16, and if they have good body, I really get excitement. Is it ok?
I don't think that I'm madman or something else and I got good breeding from my family. I have good and clever friends, and it's really hurt me, when I think I maybe pedophile. I don't know what to do, I even dont know girls of that age can feel really orgasm and it's ok for them, but I keep trying not to have relationships with girls who are about that age, but it's very difficult.
Please tell me, what do you think about me.
2007-07-18 04:07:43 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I don't think anything is too terribly wrong with you. When I think phedophile I think of somone who wants to have sex with people 14 and under. But that doesnt mean what you want isn't wrong
A lot of 15 16 and 17 year olds dress like whores now and look like thier 18 or older.
Just don't act on your fantasies for the girls protection and your protection from jail and only date girls your age.
2007-07-18 04:11:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Boy, there's a lot of bad advice here. First off, the laws are different in every state. I don't know of any state where it is legal to have sex with a 15-year old, and I'm not entirely sure about 16, but there are definitely some where 17 is legal.
Being attracted to girls this age is not a big deal. It is a bigger problem, though if you find one or more of the following is true:
1) You have trouble resisting the urge to have sex with underage girls.
2) You have trouble getting excited by adult women (i.e., women your own age)
3) You think about younger girls constantly
If any of the above is true, you should seek professional help. You haven't done anything wrong, but you will definitely want to get help before doing something that would ruin a girl's life and yours.
2007-07-18 14:43:20 · answer #2 · answered by rotogeek33 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not really. It is normal to be attracted to girls who are between the ages of 15 to 17. It's okay to be attracted, but it is not okay to act on the attraction. In the United States, it is against the law to touch a girl or boy under 18. A pedophile, in it's truest sense is someone who is attracted to children. Usually under the age of 12. So, go ahead and have your little fantasies about teenage girls, but keep your activity limited to girls who are over the age of 18. There are a lot of girls out there who LOOK like they are under 18, so maybe go for those.
2007-07-18 04:18:10 · answer #3 · answered by Yup Yup Yuppers 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's good at all...i think it's disgusting (is that even legal?) I think you should stop and get your mind on girls your age. it doesnt sound like you've ever had sex with a girl who's 22, have you? try it out. i'm saying this because i care: stop it! Some girls may even be afraid of a man like you. Many people who rape children or adults start out this way, so did it for your own good...and maybe try to find a girl your age or 21 that you can have a serious relationship with.
2007-07-18 04:13:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
16...I'd say dirty old man seeing as it's so close to 18 many 16 year olds look fully developed or almost. The mind and body can't tell if someone is 16 or 18, as long as it goes no further than being attracted but if it DID go further then I'd say pedophile.
2016-05-21 18:44:09 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you were 18 your first time, don't you think it fair that you own it to them to remain that age until their first time? i don't necessarily think you are a freak or a perv. But maybe at 22 you shouldn't be interfering with anyone who isn't 'legal'. That is a criminal charge, so be wary of it. Maybe you just want a super hot chick that looks young....not necessarilt someone that is young in age. You are not a pedophile now....but if you continue you might become one. Good Luck...and think with your head, not your helmet :)
2007-07-18 04:16:40 · answer #6 · answered by chris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if you acted upon what you are thinking about, you would be in jail! I mean, 15 and 16 year olds these days look a lot older than they really are, so i can see why you are liking them more...also, girls that young are "tighter" than an older woman, because they probably haven't had as much sex....but who knows... I think you should stick with girls that are NOT minors.....
2007-07-18 04:13:16 · answer #7 · answered by skboo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound just like my X! He was 21 and screwed our 15 year old babysitter. I think thats called HAVING A PENIS.
Try to find someone who wont get you 20 years in the pen.
My suggestion is someone who looks younger than they are.
Sorta a Katie Holmes or Amanda Bynes thing going on.
2007-07-18 04:12:22 · answer #8 · answered by Jessica W 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dont think so, if you 22, its not THAT far off 16. You like them for there bodies, ok thats FINE, if you where 40, it would be different, they tend to go for more mature types, if I were you, the youngest I'd go for would be 19. I think by 19 girls do get one, they sprouting babys out for goodness sakes! Good luck, dont worry!
2007-07-18 04:12:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If men were honest, all of us would love to have sex with girls that young. The difference between us and a pedophile is, we recognize that these are still children in need of our protection rather than exploitation. You just need to chill and recognize that it's quite okay to admire the young girls but that for adult relationships, you confine yourself to grown women. Society is, quite correctly, not kind to men who abuse children.
2007-07-18 04:18:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋