But you love him/her as he/she is your life and you can't live without her,than should you or me wait for him/her.Cause there is a say that if you love someone truely,your love come to you and you will get him/her..what do you thing?????
2007-07-18 03:18:06 · 17 answers · asked by Love mexxxxxxxim 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
a true lover will wait to last
2007-07-18 04:43:26 · answer #1 · answered by keral 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have had this friend for that long and it took you that long to decide you have deeper feelings than just friendship, you probably waited too long to have them consider you as anything but. If you thought you had those feelings earlier in the friendship, you shouldn't have hesitated and made your feelings known back then. You can do nothing but anguish over the situation unless you let the other person know how you truely feel.
2007-07-18 10:55:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it sounds very straightforward. He or She doesn't feel a thing for you. The 8-9 years of your life was truly a waste unless you want think of the good times and be happy with it. Otherwise you are wasting your time. It is high time you realize that he/she doesn't really consider you as a valuable or integral part of his/her life like you do. So MOVE ON. No one is worth caring this much for. You will just be miserable if you dwell and linger with those feelings. He/she doesn't deserve your genuine care and affection.
2007-07-18 13:19:18 · answer #3 · answered by Gilded A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even after she telling you for 8 to 9 years that she wants you to treat her as your friend .... it still does not go into your small brain .... so what on this earth will make you believe so ... even if you cannot understand such simple thing even after so many years .... iam sure if she was strong enough she would have punched you on the face to make you understand .... ever wondered how much time you have wasted behind one girl ... and the time you have lost will never come back .... you could done so much things with so many girls around .... love can never be bigger then foolishness ..... world never like losers so why the girl should be an exception .... for god sake leave her alone and happy ...
2007-07-18 13:23:51 · answer #4 · answered by jammy 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
8 to 9 years is a long time, to wait.
But.
How many times the person was approach to take the relationship to a higher level or next level.
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2007-07-18 11:57:26 · answer #5 · answered by minootoo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh honey i was there in love with one my friends, but he only saw me as a friend, it broke my heart. It took 5 yrs to get over him. But I did get over him. Everyone told me the same thing to let him go... he'll come back but when i found out he got married it hurt even worse. We just started emailing each other found out he got divorce while i was getting married. We keep in touch though, but i only see him as a friend.....I havent seen him in 17 or 18 yrs....
2007-07-18 11:44:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your friend says that he/she just wants to be friends then I am afraid that you will just have to be happy with that. If you try to push for more you will just end the friendship.
You never know what the future will bring but you need to get on with your life!
2007-07-18 10:25:59 · answer #7 · answered by Lindy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No........if he/she make it clear that he/she treat U only as a friend then U should not wait for him/her.......& U r saying that U love him/her from 8 or 9 years.........let me tell U something......U can't LOVE some1 from such young age........& anyways...........if U really love him/her now but she doesn't then it doesn't make any sense 2 wait for him/her anymore.........if U believe in that saying then U can't be happy for the rest of ur life..........think abt it...........if U've already waited for her so long......then how long U r gonna wait for her more????.......if he/she can't love U in such a long time.....then she can't love U in this life.............
So forget abt him/her & move on.......
2007-07-18 12:31:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
8 or 9 years old ?
That's an very young age.
It's not time for love yet. hehe
It could be nice to stay as only friends
and then grow to love after being older.
2007-07-18 10:27:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
being busy is a best way to forget any one. tell him clearly that u even don't want to be his friend. who knows after some time he say that u r not his friend
2007-07-20 07:48:11 · answer #10 · answered by g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wud leave him for the timebeing and concentarate on my studies or work. will not luk at him when he passes by me but keep passing by him. wud not attend to his call and wud not switch off my cell. wud go out to hang out where he can expectedly ***. but not even luk at him when he is there. i am not experienced but i suppose this shud work. try this.
if he cums to u as to kno y r u ignoring him he is already urs. if he is not then he never was.
2007-07-18 12:56:38 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋