im starting to go crazy we havent had sex in 2 1/2 months we use to have sex all the time ive tried toys, outfits, longerie, games, videos, standing the living room naked when he came home from work but he wont have sex with me and when i ask him doesnt say anything or he says he doesnt want to or he doesnt feel like it
some of my friends say maybe he's gay or he's cheating on me but i dont think so and he wont tell me why he wont either its starting to get reall annoying
i just wanna know doesnt he want to have sex?
2007-07-18 03:01:14 · 14 answers · asked by yuna 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You are married to this man. Can you not talk to him about this? Ask him if he's having medical problems and if so, ask him to get help. Tell him how much you love him and miss the intimacy. Has your relationship changed in other ways? If so, he may be having an affair or he may be gay and doesn't know how to tell you. Don't think those things can't happen! I was married 11 years to a teacher/preacher/counselor and THEN found out he had molested our little boys and half the kids at school and in the church.
2007-07-18 03:21:24 · answer #1 · answered by missingora 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Besides that he's banging the secretary, maybe he's just plain tired or stressed from work. Maybe the sex is just not turning him on anymore. Ask him what fantasies he has and how'd you like to fulfill it for him.
At the very least, you'll get him talking about sex. Whenever I talk about sex, I get horny and will bang anything within arm's reach.
You didn't mention how you've kept yourself up. If you've left yourself go, that could be a big turnoff for him.
2007-07-18 04:47:53 · answer #2 · answered by RM 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Medical reasons; has he had a checkup. Something is wrong with him and he is fearful. Maybe little johnnie won't salute anymore.
2007-07-18 03:05:25 · answer #3 · answered by acmeraven 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
WELL AS YOU KNOW MOST MEN LIKE TO HAVE SEX, BUT MAYBE ITS MORE IMPORTANT HE CAN NOT TALK TO YOU ABOUT, TRY TO BE UNDERSTANDING WITH HIM, I AM NOT SAYING THIS IS THE PROBLEM BUT MY ONE HUSBAND WAS LIKE THIS AND I FOUND OUT HE COULD NOT PERFORM SEX ANYMORE. THIS IS VERY SERIOUS PROBLEM WITH MEN, THEY WILL NOT LIKE A MAN ANYMORE. GOOD LUCK
2007-07-18 03:08:45 · answer #4 · answered by Jocelyn G 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He may not be attracted to you anymore. Ask him. If he says that he isn't, there isn't much you can do, but at least you'll know.
2007-07-18 04:03:10 · answer #5 · answered by Ronnie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HEY YOU... IT IS VERY SIMPLE ... HE IS GAY... OR HE IS CHEATING... OR AT THE VERY LEAST HE IS WORKING THINGS OUT IN HIS HEAD TO CHEAT OR LEAVE YOU FOR A GUY OR GIRL. MOST GUYS WHO LOVE THERE WIFE WILL JUMP THEM ANYTIME THEY GET A CHANCE TO EVEN IF THEY ARE NOT REALLY THAT HORNY BECAUSE A MAN NEVER TURNS DOWN A CHANCE TO F**K WE JUST DON'T... THERE'S SOMETHING WRONG...
2007-07-18 03:28:55 · answer #6 · answered by 4stringthndr 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Maybe he is getting turned off by your personality.
2007-07-18 03:26:33 · answer #7 · answered by diamondbullet66 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe his job is tiring or he cheating.
2007-07-22 01:00:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try checking out www.below-the-belt.com
2007-07-21 07:35:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well may be he has some medical problem...check out and take him to a doc.
2007-07-18 03:10:36 · answer #10 · answered by sonalirawal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋