Do you hate it when someone comes to your house everyday and won't go home?

Question

I hate it my brother friend comes to mine everyday she even follows me shopping

How can i make her go away

Answer 1

Ask her to do you strange favours and act really upset if she does not do them. For example, ask her to go out and get some salt, and when she gets back ask her to check the garden for snails and when she finishes that ask her to watch the news channel with you for a while and so on. Soon she will think you are too demanding and will make excuses not to come around to your house.

Answer 2

i know exactly what you mean - i used to have this problem (with a friend) I think the friend thinks of you as being her 'best' friend, and probably an easy way of passing time away in your company,in an odd sort of way although blimmin annoying, its also flattering that she picked you!!!, but the only way you can get her to go away, or visit less often - is to hide behind the sofa....lol ....if you find that you cant be straight with her without upsetting or offending her - or every time she comes over - have your coat on, and make out you are going to visit a friend who youve not seen for a while...the more excuses the more she will get the hint.....

or the decent way would be to speak with your brother in confidence about her always hanging around you,

does she have many friends? or does she lack confidence, or is her life stuck in a rut where she doesnt pursue any challenges or opportunitys - if not could you introduce her to some friends that you know, to build her social circle, and take the heat of you.....even a club/society.... or get you brother to help her.


you could even speak with her, and kindly put it that while you appreciate her visits - sometimes you need some space. when she next comes over - later today !!!! when she leaves tell her you will see her next week sometime, as youve got a lot on this week......

Answer 3

I used to have the same problem with a friend she would turn up unannounced at least twice a week, it sounds like it is your brothers friend does he mind her turning up everyday?

Anyway just ask her to phone before she comes over as it is common courtesy and you will tell her whether or not it is a good time to visit. if she fails to listen to you just do not answer the front door, after a few days she should get the picture.

Answer 4

I'm having some similar problems at the moment, because me and my friend have just moved into the city centre, and because of this a guy he knows keeps coming round as he's 'in the area'. It's really annoying as we've only got a bedsit, so there's nowhere for me to escape to!

The best thing you can do is to just speak to her, being careful not to shout, and just say that you want some time to yourself. If she still doesn't listen then have a word with your brother about it, see if he can do anything.

Answer 5

It's annoying if someone is coming uninvited to your house everyday, you should tell her that you need more privacy and that she can't visit you every day, and if you are not that type of person who would talk out about problems, just don't open the door and pretend you are not at home, and if you have a mobile phone don't answer it, she will soon find out that something is wrong and that she may be annoying...:)

Answer 6

lol
i know how you feel
i've had the same problem alot of times
what i do is keep making excuses say your busy doing this or that they soon get bored of wasteing there time coming over
you can even say your on the way out or about to have a bath or even don't answer the door

try making tea or coffee that taste bad lol
maybe rig the electric to the door knocker lol only jk

even don't answer the door then next tim you see them just say you was in the bath so couldn't answer

Answer 7

Mine follows me from the auto salvage yard, usually carrying 10-16 random stray cats and dogs, and eats all the luncheon meat out of my fridge. I think she's a relative of Buk, only with Tourette's Syndrome and a daily care of chiggers.

Answer 8

I have an unwelcome guest actually living at my house right now, she pays no rent eats alot never cleans up and uses all my make up,

I wish she would f off back to her mother, but I dont' want to fall out with her so need to be tactfull, but I know what your going though chick and these people dont even pick up on hints!!! are they stupid or what lol

Answer 9

Well, one time when the UPS man came to my door & I didn't want to talk to him, I hid. I seriously saw him coming up the driveway so my sister & I turned all of the lights off to make it look like we werent home or were still sleeping. We then both ran over to the front door to see if he was going to come over and when we got to the window on the door, he was just walking on to our front door - we couldn't move cuz he was RIGHT THERE and he would hear us, so we layed down right in front of the door so he wouldn't see us. He was knocking on the door for like 5 minutes & he finally gave up and I guess he thought we were gone ;)
You could try that when she comes over. Just lock all your doors.

Or pretend you are sick..... that you have this highly contagious disease and she better not hang around you or she will get it. When she wants to go shopping with you, tell her you are looking for a surprise gift for someone and you would rather be by yourself.

If she is your brothers friend, why doesn't she hang out with your brother? Tell her whatever your brothers' name is "he wants you to hang out with him more because you are his friend".

Good luck getting her to leave. I know what it can be like to have people you don't like follow you everywhere. I used to have someone like that and finally I just started showing her that I didn't like her - I would only talk to her if she came over to talk to me - I would answer yes or no. Don't go any further than that and maybe she'll get the hint that you are not interested in being friends with her.

Answer 10

I share your pain... My oldest brother comes over everyday because we take care of his son. But even days that we don't take care of him, for some reason my brother comes over anyways!!
I can begin to tell you how my brother is an annoying jack@ss.

With your brothers friend, I would just tell her that she can't come with you.